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Originally Posted by Daniel_DeAngelo
So I was just thinking of places to meet women besides the internet, but going to pubs and bars are not my thing and I do not really enjoy approaching women on the streets and trying to start a conversation with them.
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It is difficult to begin with mate, but nothing worth doing is easy. Ask yourself what you really want to get from getting in to this thing and maybe your answer will allow you to bite the bullet and get approaching on the street.
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Originally Posted by Daniel_DeAngelo
I do not live in a big city like London and they seem to be busy or going somewhere.
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It doesnt matter where your from mate. Unless your from a monastery theres always gonna be fanny about. Dont use where you live as an excuse, its bollocks. Oh and you say they look like there busy or going somewhere, yeh thats cos they are. But so what, your a man, you have desires, go out and get them. A random conversation with a handsome stranger will make most womens day, go be that handsome stranger dude.
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Bars and Clubs are said to be the some of worst places to meet women
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Whoever told you this doesnt have your best interest at heart.
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Originally Posted by Daniel_DeAngelo
apprantly women mainly go there to just have fun with their mates and not for the primary purpose of sex.
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Your absolutley right there pal, and that should be your main purpose too.
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Originally Posted by Daniel_DeAngelo
So I thought maybe good a way to meet women is by participating in activities that are popular women and more popular with women than men. Yet I fear that by doing such activity I would be acting gay or feminine, even though a few men do them and they were invented and developed by men originally.
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Dont do something just cos it might be popular with women. Do it cos your genuinley interested in it or enjoy it. Furthermore whose gonna think your gay or feminine? and more importantly why the fuck would you care. Unless your hobby is sucking cock i wouldnt worry about it being thought of as gay.
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Originally Posted by Daniel_DeAngelo
I was thinking of going to a Dance class or a Yoga class or suchlike for the sole purpose of meeting women. Should I give it a try? Do you think people may think I'm gay or weird if I did? Would it be worth trying?
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Yes try it out mate, you never know you might be the next salsa world champ or something, the only way you will fnd out is if you try. But please dont go with the sole purpose of meeting women. It would be much better to go with the attitude of 'Im gonna try out a new hobby, maybe il like it maybe i wont. There might be a ton of women there too which would be cool too.'
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Originally Posted by Daniel_DeAngelo
I am just wondering if I am being paranoid or too judging of people.  |
Just get out there and have a go dude.
07-09-2010, 02:54 PM
