Im struggling a bit here and need some opinion, some advice, your thoughts, etc etc.

We always talk about how we want to be awesome socially. I might be wrong here but I cant help thinking that how we gauge SA depends on how good we are in our interactions with the opposite sex, how successful we are in the field i.e. #-close, k-close and/or f-close.

Surely social awesomeness encompasses many aspects of our lives too. How well we perform at work or at uni, how healthy & how independent we are, how well we do with money, how good a dad I am to my kids, how we are outside of this community with our non-pua friends, being confident, doing charity work, learning new skills (dancing, eloquence, etc.) i.e enriching ourselves with life's experience. Im sure by now you are getting my drift of what I am trying to say.

I have seen/observed the lives of 1 or 2 PUAs here in Manchester and I personally think they have done well in inching closer towards SA.

I think the trick is to just truly believe you are totally socially awesome!
If you do everything you can to be there for your kids, then your a total awesome dad, if you try your hardest at everything you do, and do not be afraid of failure, then your awesome.
You ARE awesome at everything you do. You know it. And everyone else will know it.
If you doubt it, they will too.
If you dont have much money, use it as best you can, and realize your better off than some people, and be completely happy with everything you have, everything you do.

If you walk in a club thinking I AM THE SHIT, people will notice and love you for it.
If you walk in thinking, I hope people like me because I'm trying to be awesome, they will realize and will turn away.

This is just my opinion on the matter Not saying your not confident or anything like that, because your awesome!

Dan

Thanks Dan...!
YES, YES I AM Socially Awesome!