Im struggling a bit here and need some opinion, some advice, your thoughts, etc etc.

We always talk about how we want to be awesome socially. I might be wrong here but I cant help thinking that how we gauge SA depends on how good we are in our interactions with the opposite sex, how successful we are in the field i.e. #-close, k-close and/or f-close.

Surely social awesomeness encompasses many aspects of our lives too. How well we perform at work or at uni, how healthy & how independent we are, how well we do with money, how good a dad I am to my kids, how we are outside of this community with our non-pua friends, being confident, doing charity work, learning new skills (dancing, eloquence, etc.) i.e enriching ourselves with life's experience. Im sure by now you are getting my drift of what I am trying to say.

I have seen/observed the lives of 1 or 2 PUAs here in Manchester and I personally think they have done well in inching closer towards SA.