why i havent had sex yet - Page 2 - PUA Forums - The UK's Leading Pick-up Artist Forum

Phil · 19-08-2010, 10:43 PM

GET A PROSTITUTE... Your then no longer a virgin... you no longer need to think about it... and i guarantee u will have had sex again within 8 weeks for free

bushido · 20-08-2010, 11:56 AM

well headin off to las vegas so maybe get myself one phil :P

Casanova · 20-08-2010, 01:14 PM

mate your making so many excuses trust me your first time isnt going to be some magical event! your building it up to be so much more than what it is. Stop wasting opportunities and go for it your not gonna learn anything telling ppl on a forum why you havent had sex yet its because you need to man up and go for it!

Loke · 20-08-2010, 01:57 PM

it's like anything, the more you practice the better it is

sapmi · 20-08-2010, 04:07 PM

There is good and bad in every product. I found Sinns new 5 steps to Seduction programme, focussing on natural game.

The first step is about your hang ups about sex. He said everyone has these hang ups and he tries to help you over come these. (You can download this somewhere online). Helping you have a healthy attitude to sex, will help you get good with women and have your dream woman eventually.

Of course this is the only piece of pick up advice I DON'T need, since I'm such a sex mad freak, that I pay for sex and I'm not ashamed of it, and I have the most weirdest sick sexual fetishes ever hehehe

Loke · 20-08-2010, 04:57 PM

So you pick up women to sleep with, and sprinkle it with hookers on top....why am i suddenly feeling a bit envious!

sapmi · 20-08-2010, 05:06 PM

Yep! Manchester is the whore capital of Britain...the some of the best massage parlours in Europe..only Germany and Spain beating it. Apparently Amsterdam in shit.

Zed · 23-08-2010, 03:31 PM

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Originally Posted by bushido

thanks for the input guys its not like im sitting at my computer doing nothing, i go out, approach girls quite alot get numbers and am improving everyday, the problem is that i simply dont feel that i can willingly sleep with some average girl i dont like because every says its not a big deal u shud just do it.. im not trying to be unrealistic in my standards but i just want to sleep with girls im attracted to and start off on the right foot, with a girl i actually care about. im not looking for some magical first time i just want to know that i waited and got a girl i like not some random girl i really dont like that is a total skank. A few months ago i was outside a club wasted i was in a queue to get on a bus, a girl infront of me puts her hand down my jeans and starts jackin me off...she tried to pull me onto the bus and was clearly looking for a fuk, i stayed, i didnt want some girl like that, i didnt turn down others in the past and wait around for her. i have a girl i know i wont regret and i'm going after her..

Tbh if you'd gone back with this girl it would have been a fools mate.

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Originally Posted by bushido

tbh im sure i really will look back on this and wish i cud bitchslap myself but i find it very hard to stop myself feeling this way and its not like its unrealistic to get this girl, if i set my mind to it i will get her.

You probably won't regret it, unless she was really hot.

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Originally Posted by bushido

i want to get this girl, and get hot girls after i dont want to settle i dont want to feel like im desperate for sex or that i have to do something because everyone else is. Just the way i am.

If you really want this, then you need to stop justifying yourself to everyone else and against their lifestyles. Start doing it the other way round, your lifestyle is the correct one, and theirs is incorrect. You need to get into the PUA mindset, because at the moment your sounding like you ARE desperate for sex, and you WANT to do something because everyone else is. Its AFCish.

Change your social circle, get rid of oneitis. Practice quality and quantity.

Zed · 23-08-2010, 03:33 PM

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Originally Posted by Casanova

mate your making so many excuses trust me your first time isnt going to be some magical event! your building it up to be so much more than what it is. Stop wasting opportunities and go for it your not gonna learn anything telling ppl on a forum why you havent had sex yet its because you need to man up and go for it!

I disagree. It can be magical, and you will remember it for the rest of your life.

nova · 23-08-2010, 03:45 PM

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Originally Posted by Zed

I disagree. It can be magical, and you will remember it for the rest of your life.

And imagine the regret if it isn't magical. I for one have had my best sex years after my first time. I just look back to my first time with amusement.