Hi, thought I'd ask if anyone ever has girls pursuing a friendship. I've been meeting up with this girl who has a boyf so I'm reluctant to make any moves. she seems really keen to meet up and texts alot but when we do hang out it just looks like she wants to be just mates. I dont really know her that well but she is cool so I'm fine being mates. Its confusing me because I've not experienced this before and I was wondering if anyone else has experienced something similar??

I'm pretty determined not to become another orbiter.

Have her as your mate, and have her introduce you to all her good looking friends. You already have value in their eyes as you are their friends mate so is perfect

Thanks guys. I guess I just didn't understand her agenda. I am friends with alot of girls but I know where I stand with them. Normally when girls chase this hard it's game on I will keep things friendly and see what happens

Ta

Do you fancy the girl? Hit on her. The BF can go fuck.

If she wants you, she'll leaver her boyfriend. I dont fancy hitting on anyone's partner. Too much hassle than it is worth. Loads more single HBs around.