fucking hell, and this place used to be friendly!
anyway my honest opinion is that your using the "I could if I wanted to" thought as an excuse. no matter how you look at it. you obviously want to because why else would you come on here and make a post titled "I dont approach enough" your just looking for reasons.
I think there was a very good part about this in the blueprint.
Tyler explains it by saying something like imagine your conscious is going to fly a plane but your unconscious wont give you the instructions... if you just go ahead and take off then the unconscious will soon follow... sorry if my spelling is off btw :S
dont look for reasons why its okay not to approach because its "you" and "you" could do it if you wanted too...
and please people chill with the arguing...
Much love
Db xx