There's not much volume there, but what's there seems interesting. Would you advertise or just consume?

kowalski

You persist in seeing this as a battle. I wouldn't dignify you with that. But I am curious if you are not wanting to fuck lots of different women why according to you do you not want a relationship?

J

Am probably going to do the same thing and was curious to know what sort of results you got.

Suckas gonna sucka

OK yes, it's perfectly logical. As a strategy it has a lot of risks however. One is that you covertly become someone who unconsciously starts to use other people. Bit by bit you may become more and more controlling manipulative egotistical deeply selfish... a full-on narcissist even. I'm not saying you are any of those things, but you will need to work hard to not to become that person. These 3 girls at time, I guess they all know about each other, right and maybe you have talked them into thinking that they are cool with that, but maybe they wake up after a few months and feel abused. Would that actually bother you if they felt that way? I mean they had agreed to the situation, right and as consenting adults it's really their problem, right?

Actually I can't be bothered to unpick all the potential hazards. I'm sure you know what most of them are.

But if you want the honest truth, although it would be buzz for a while the life you describe is not ultimately what I seek. You may be smugly thinking that you are 'livin da dream' - the dream that all guys if they had the choice would really want.

But in my case you'd be incorrect - I wouldn't swap. I want something simpler and deeper.

Life is short and at the end of it it would be nice to think that you had done some genuine good in this world. Your lifestyle will take a lot of energy to manage and yes, if you can pull it off without causing hurt your lifestyle certainly has logic and good luck to you.

But what can I say love is not logical. I guess we are all wired differently.

Enough.

No! You stupid idiot. I'm on a simply different path. Gads! But if that offends your ego that someone else can be too bad.

Bored now.

Hey Guys,

Have any of you tried the raunchier/specialist sites?
e.g. Date Naughty Singles, Ashley madison, No strings dating (Marr., BBW, Swinger) etc

Most likely a bl**dy waste of time, but the profiles look a bit more up for it.

J

This is it. This is very last time I dignify your inaccurate, idee fixe comments with a response, Kowalski. Farewell.

Yes, I am doing well, increasingly well with girls recently, thanks. There have been several girls buzzing around me of late. e.g. I had a fantastic night only last night. Absolutely hilarious. With very little effort I was slightly on fire and I was clearly the facilitator, engager, communicator and ultimately the good-natured "dominant male" in the group. It was a brilliant evening. Either way the 9 sitting next to me wants to meet up. And although I'm still a humble noob with much to learn, it was great to practice various skills.

Nonetheless, I think that online dating has it's place, just so long as it leads to real-world interaction within a reasonable space of frickin TIME.

So far the only sites I have found allow free messaging are:
- OKCupid
- matchmehappy.co.uk

It's not that I object to paying in principle, but there are 10s, maybe 100s of sites and I have no intention of signing up to them all, moreover I object to paying £30 to find out the quality of who's on each site.

Then don't dude. Tinder and POF have already been mentioned to you. Do you've got dating platforms you can use, plus the option of, you know, actually going out. The idea that 'quality' women are paying to go on dating sites is daft anyways.