av spent some time thinking about my life,men,women,relationships, i will use my work place as example because we have our fair share of women there. Alot of relationships have formed there, and it mostly always seem to be the same story, the guy pursues the women,untill the women gives in.
Now have had my fair share of opportunities with some of the hottest women where i work,but i have tended to stay away from them,and focus on my night time activities.
Few reasons for this,1 is didnt want to get involved with someone i worked with,cause everybody would no my business,i have never liked that idea,always wanted to keep somthings private.
There was a recent opportunity that has come up,and am sure if i pursued her i would get her,but i dont want to,not because am not attracted to her, i cant help think that it should be easer than this, i see it as a weakness to pursue,like am giving up my self respect or dignity,does anyone else feel this way.

I'm with you man. Getting involved with girls at work can get messy. Cos whatever happens, you have tokeep seeing them every day. If they end up hating you for whatever reason, they can spread spiteful roumours and fuck everything up.

Pretty girls are ten a penny, so I don't see any reason why you wouldn't minimise your risk and keep this shit until night time.