Hi all,

Pretty much all my success with women to date has been as a result of drinking and drunken nights out. I'm trying to change this, more than anything because it is costing me a fortune.

Anyway, need some advice please. I've met a couple of girls online - they are basically up for 'fun' and don't want relationships. I've suggested coffee - the vibe is pretty much them seeing if we 'click'. I've laid the foundations well, I just need to not screw up this meet.

Can anyone give me any useful advice? What to do and what not to do? Sorry to sound obvious but I've never done any face to face chatting up unless I'm in some club. I've a lot to learn.

I need to make this flirty and to show my intentions - not just some friendly little lunch.

Any help appreciated.

all went very well - she came back to mine that night!

Good to hear it. 👍
Did you find any problems with maybe having a coffee table between you to use body language or touching to escalate. I would find sitting on stools maybe better than a table with chairs. A bit like at a bar.

Coffee is my new drink too, so plan on using coffee bars as regular bars and had a blind date in Cafe Nero and it was like sitting at a grandma's sitting room, in comfy chairs but far too far away, I would of chosen to of sat next to her but her back was on the chair before I could grab the seat and didn't chose to move it.

Saying that with an approach they say it's better to stand directly in front of the lady. So I wonder which is the best coffee position and then why?

Any thoughts on this chaps?