Hi all,

Pretty much all my success with women to date has been as a result of drinking and drunken nights out. I'm trying to change this, more than anything because it is costing me a fortune.

Anyway, need some advice please. I've met a couple of girls online - they are basically up for 'fun' and don't want relationships. I've suggested coffee - the vibe is pretty much them seeing if we 'click'. I've laid the foundations well, I just need to not screw up this meet.

Can anyone give me any useful advice? What to do and what not to do? Sorry to sound obvious but I've never done any face to face chatting up unless I'm in some club. I've a lot to learn.

I need to make this flirty and to show my intentions - not just some friendly little lunch.

Any help appreciated.