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Default 11-02-2016, 06:49 PM

I agree with everything K has told you.

I might add 2 further points:
1. Lubrication - get some of that shit and use it! It will solve a lot of the physical discomfort that she may have experienced and might still be expecting.

2. Talk openly and without embarrassment about SEX - seriously, talk and converse about it openly without giggling and squirming at that the words for genitalia and the actions. You being a super calm mother fucker about it will make her feel calm and you can both figure out whats going on.
If you need some pointers on how to do this, go buy the lubricant from an adult store rather than a pharmacy and talk to the store clerks. They are so good at talking all day about the ins and outs of the products and the acts in a respectful and passionate way.


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Default 11-02-2016, 06:54 PM

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Well she is a bit shy in general. In terms of talking about sex or expressing her emotions she prefers to do it on the phone rather than face to face. She is not socially awkward but i had to put a lot of work in order to make her more confident about herself already. She keeps reminding me of that. Does her being on the implant could cause this?
Are we talking about the implant making her shy? Probably not.

There are 2 sides to this coin. Firstly it's self confidence - how she feels about herself.
Secondly it's how she feels about you. You can't control these but you can help.

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Another thing is that she is not very into all those things you should do in relationships. What i mean by that is that she would rather come to mine, watch some films and cuddle rather than idk go out for movies. I.e. on 13th she goes to a house party with her old friends from highschool knowing that she will be hungover on valentines. She said that its just a day like any other and shes not bothered if we meet. I dont really know how should i approach that.
Do you care about Valentine's? I mean really deep down give a shit?
Have a think about why you do what you do in relationships. Is it because you enjoy it, or you feel it is the societal norm?
I do what I want because it will please me or my girl and preferably both!
I hardly ever go to the cinema 2s-up. I'd rather watch a film and cuddle. Sometimes we watch the film, sometimes we just have sex and sometimes we'll just sit and talk to each other because that's how we're feeling


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Default 11-02-2016, 08:16 PM

hi i would add to all the good advise your getting
the feeling she's having to pee is a very good one you need to tell her to relax and just go with it and she will deffo cum or squirt
there are some youtube vids on this and i think its the point about feeling the need to pee which she's worried about its normal its just a part of her body thats absorping liquid behind her clit look into it an just tell her that hope it helps
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Default 11-02-2016, 09:01 PM

I just got off the phone with her. She hates talking about sex. I don't know why but its getting my nerves up. I tried to explain to her that she can cum and actually enjoy it and she was just like: can we talk about something else. I do the effort of finding out what is wrong and she just fu**ing ignores it.
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Default 11-02-2016, 09:09 PM

dude i would of not done it on the phone just wait till your next with her and let it come up in convo with normal can try and sway the convo in that way but girls are more emotional and guy logistical which is what your doing here
not a bad thing just let her come around to it an not put her off with that kind of talk
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Default 11-02-2016, 09:10 PM

just be more chilled with it on the phone you just have voice with can be direct when she's infrount of you, you have the body language as well
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Default 13-02-2016, 11:33 PM

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I just got off the phone with her. She hates talking about sex. I don't know why but its getting my nerves up. I tried to explain to her that she can cum and actually enjoy it and she was just like: can we talk about something else. I do the effort of finding out what is wrong and she just fu**ing ignores it.
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how's it going with your chica?


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