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Originally Posted by fighter111
Well she is a bit shy in general. In terms of talking about sex or expressing her emotions she prefers to do it on the phone rather than face to face. She is not socially awkward but i had to put a lot of work in order to make her more confident about herself already. She keeps reminding me of that. Does her being on the implant could cause this?
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Are we talking about the implant making her shy? Probably not.
There are 2 sides to this coin. Firstly it's self confidence - how she feels about herself.
Secondly it's how she feels about you. You can't control these but you can help.
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Originally Posted by fighter111
Another thing is that she is not very into all those things you should do in relationships. What i mean by that is that she would rather come to mine, watch some films and cuddle rather than idk go out for movies. I.e. on 13th she goes to a house party with her old friends from highschool knowing that she will be hungover on valentines. She said that its just a day like any other and shes not bothered if we meet. I dont really know how should i approach that.
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Do you care about Valentine's? I mean really deep down give a shit?
Have a think about why you do what you do in relationships. Is it because you enjoy it, or you feel it is the societal norm?
I do what I want because it will please me or my girl and preferably both!
I hardly ever go to the cinema 2s-up. I'd rather watch a film and cuddle. Sometimes we watch the film, sometimes we just have sex and sometimes we'll just sit and talk to each other because that's how we're feeling