How to pick up students?
 

We as I mentioned in my introduction I'm currently through my first semester of my BSc at uni. I'm a mature student in my early 30s and frankly I'm finding dating pretty hard. The girls here clearly don't think of me as a viable option which is a problem because my whole social life now revolves around university. Even if I had the inclination I don't have the time or money to spend searching for girls outside of my normal circles. And anyway while I'm here it seems to me I might as well at least try to pick up other students.

So what's the best advice you can give in how to pick up students?

A more useful place, where the advice is actually good: #1 PUA Forum - Become The Ultimate Pick Up Artist

I will tell you first though, to stop viewing student girls as some huge obstacle. If you can seduce a girl then you can seduce a student girl... I don't know how else to word it, they're no different. Just be able to have fun and you're alright.

Mature..

It was hardly immature? He's not going to get much from here with 150 active members, most of which being oneitis beginners, is he?

Then what the fuck are you doing here? You're getting shit from people on here and wanted to be snide out of spite. Don't bullshit like you're doing that to be beneficent, especially with the half arsed advice you actually offered.

I'm not here for advice, am I? I came back to view my old posts and laugh at them, then see if this forum grew.

Tell me what way posting a link to another pickup forum would bother any member on this forum? Are you missing out on any value by this guy asking on another forum? I don't think so?

I don't care particularly, but the intent behind it is spiteful and immature and I pointed that out.

It's funny that you think you're so much above how you were before. Both times you posted something people disagreed with, you caught feelings and lashed out. If you were really here just to do what you said, you'd be gone already

In the other thread, I never lashed out at all. In this one, I simply pointed out that you've understood me wrong.

The one disadvantage this forum has over the other one you lined is it has a lot less members.

The advantage this forum has over the other you posted is it isn't full of PUA routine drones & isn't a poster child for PUAtraining.com & Adam Lyons (at least it was when I visited there previously). You'll get real life proper advice here, which most people can't handle because it doesn't stick to the norms of PUA lingo & routines. It's probably scarier because what is spoken about on here is a lot harder (but more beneficial) then just following the PUA sheep and not really improving. Quantity or quality of advice - depends on your preference.

As for the guy who posted for advice on here. The main thing is a lot of these women will be a lot younger than you, they are just young looking for fun. Depending on your life style - the first thing you need to do is buy into that, which will involve attending a lot of social/drinking nights out. You've also got the ace card playing the older, more mature and life experienced man. Try just going on a few nights out and letting your hair down. I noticed a huge difference in my social/drinking life from say the age of 28 onwards compared to when i was at Uni - I'd really struggle to go back to that now & I'm in my thirties. Just start going out and letting your hair down & having fun. if your wanting to pull Uni chicks, you really need to go on there nights out, that's where they meet & pull all the men. It's not going to work out so well if your just the older guy on their course that they only see in the class room but never on nightss out.

No I won't lash out at the guy, because he didn't express it with a pointless little insult. Plus I genuinely wasn't trying to be a dick, seriously.

As for the other forum, yes there are pointless sections on routines and NLP and all of that other stuff, but you'll notice that the guys who actually know what they're doing are nowhere to be seen in those sections. There's good and bad wherever you go.

The difference is that I can understand where he's coming from. This is how each situation was delivered to me:

1.
me: "I like the progress I've made. I'm pretty proud of myself"
Stein: "Fuck off. You've made none."

2.
me: "Go to this forum, the advice is better"
Stein: "Wow. Childish. Grow the fuck up. Thought you said you'd changed?"

Even though Stein understood me wrong, he still made a valid point with it and I could easily understand how he came to that, and it was because of the way I worded it - making me look bitter. You just called me names and have since tried to justify by reframing...

I'm not going to carry on taking over this thread. Talking on 2 different threads is pointless...

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That statement is crap. I've been to that forum and still post for wing man meet ups. And to tell you the truth "PUA forum co uk" is the biggest in the uk. I've met more wings from here then anywhere else. :puaforum:

Also "pick-up-artist-forum.com#1 PUA Forum" has gay trolls.

a while back I use to only use "pick-up-artist-forum.com#1 PUA Forum"; before I found this site. I had some guy massage me. the only problem was; he was trying to chat me up. :wtf:

Then he asked me out on a date. :eek:

He wanted me to hang out with him and so friends of his. Get this: "NOT TO DO PICK UP, but just to talk" :confused:

I never read posts on "pick-up-artist-forum.com#1 PUA Forum", because it's full of keyboard bangers who just flirt with each other. Saying thank you for some half baked pick up lines. :der:

at :puaforum: everyone keeps it real. that's why no-one will buy into your bullshit J.Daniels. Your posts read like you're another keyboard banger. :detective:

Maybe you should try picking up girls outside of uni first (sounds counterintuitive), but that way when you start getting results you'll realise you're not so dependent on uni girls and perhaps this will help you??

Every thread you ever post is asking for people to come with you to "sarge" lol. You can't expect to not get trolled, really? But each to their own. My comment was genuinely taken the wrong way. I was talking about the quantity, and in no way insulting the quality (intentionally)

Nope. I'm laughing at the fact that he refers to it as "sarging".

J.Daniels you must be mad or something. :crazy:

I totally understand your personality type. When ever you get caught out, instead of just saying sorry and holding your hands. You think it's best to just bare face lie your way out of trouble. It's like you think everybody is stupid and you're the only smart person.

There is no way in hell, you can tell me that my story about the other forum and the people on it was predictable. What is predictable is people saying they will come and not turning up. Guys are normally too scared to troll a wing man meet up, because it's too real.


That's a lie. When I first read your post. It made me laugh (At you, not with you). Five seconds later Stein calls you out. And you have been trying to lie your way out of trouble ever since.

If you think the other forum is better than say so, I don't think you will get banned for holding your ground and voicing your own point of view. :ban:

The truth is I don't like anything you say, but I love the fact that you have a uncanny ability to never say sorry and a need to have the last word.

I can put money down that you will reply to this post, and bet you anything that you will blatantly try and lie your way out of trouble even if you have been caught red handed. :thefinger:

Yes I will reply to this post. I'm sorry but I can't respect the opinion of a person who posts thread after thread begging people to "sarge" with him, and then gets bitter when he gets no results. Lol. Moronic, really.

"Caught out" in what way did I get caught out? If anything it was Drop that got caught out, and now looks like a fucking bellend. Try some real friends, kid. Would you not agree, Lee? Of course you wouldn't - biased opinion.

Lol. Keep banging on about it all you want. The fact of the matter is that you think I insulted your little forum, and you lost your rag. If I wanted to insult your forum then I would, and I'd admit it.

Personally I do think this forum is pretty crap. But it's not what I meant with my initial comment.

And that's basicly what I do. But my daily life in term time currently involves, lectures, reading, studying and going to a student club about twice a week and occasionally going out to a bar with a few people from my course. I can't really aford much more in terms of time or money. So when I flirt with the girls and get almost zero responce I kind of don't know what to do to get on their radar.

Stop trying to "get on their radar" and just have fun. The need for anything, gets in the way of everything. Don't be a reaction seeking little bitch. Just be a social guy and have fun like you would with any other woman. Stop treating it like "I have to be different with this kind of girl" or you're just going to get nowhere.

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Cool, lets clear up your lie. I never use the word sarge. It's too aggressive. :rocketwhore:

I have always called it a meet up. And when I talk about it to my normal friends I refer to it as "going out and chatting up girls"

I never get bitter if I get rejected. It would make me look bad and insecure.

like Jaz said in a different post.

Which was the exact thing I said to my wing on Saturday.

Hence the reason I stood up for this forum. Because people know what they are talking about here. :puaforum:

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Now can we please put our dicks away and get back on topic?

I wouldn't say I'm reaction seeking, I've always considered my self a naturally flurtatious person so that is kind of natural for me. However I'm used to girls being happy to flirt back a little, open up a little more perhaps. My flirting usually puts girls more at ease. But if anything I'd say it was having the opposite effect here. Sure no one is slapping me and storming off but I can't help but notice how topics get changed more often after I start flirting.

Oh my god. you got me.

Yes, sorry.

Maybe they're just not attracted to you? There's not a magic pick up line to fix that. Maybe you're being too forward, not forward enough? Some people try to flirt and they're just awkward. I hope you're not one of those guys who just discovered this stuff and is running around negging everything in sight lol.

Honestly, the best thing you can do is just have fun and not give a fuck. Do things because they amuse YOU. Not because you're trying to impress some girls. Treat all girls the same, be charming, flirt (maybe work on this if it's the problem), keep doing what you're doing and you'll learn from it and inevitably the results will come, when you're not so fixed on getting them.

No offence but if pick up skills can't make you seem more attractive to women (on average) then really what is the point of them?

You'd struggle to assimilate the full concept if I explained it properly. It's not like you learn a couple of quick fix lines that will just instantly get her wet. That shit is just what people say to sell you their product (my recent claims that Adam Lyons is good will come back to bite me in the ass if you make me say that again). Sure you could use routines and get laid now and then with no real connection and it'd drain your confidence bit by bit as you realise that girls only want you because you're using routines taught by a mentally unstable man with nail varnish on. The best thing to be doing realistically is to practice your social skills by approaching women, bantering/flirting and keep at it. Repetition is the mother of skill.

It's not this little external set of skills that you use. It's about becoming the best possible version of yourself, getting your shit together and being an actual man. Women are just a side effect of this. A quick rule of thumb is that everything you've ever been taught about women is probably wrong.

Wanna know what's weird? When you stop focusing on women and start focusing on the other areas of your life, women will weirdly come to you. Then it's up to you to make the most of the opportunities.

Most guys find out that it's not just a book of chat up lines and routines that suddenly get you laid left and right, and they're straight out the door. Stick at it, and you'll understand.

You don't flirt with your female mates?

There you go again, Lee. Lashing out because of the substance abuse. I asked a simple fucking question. Jesus Christ.

Lol. Such a little bitch.

OP, if you take any advice from this guy then you deserve what's coming to you. Does he look like he has any idea what he's talking about to you? Enjoy:

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Yep. Obsessed.

Yea, girl, of course.

Yea, it was B... she's not as hot as you're making her out to be, at all. Also nice to see that THIS is how you look when you're on a date. I dread to think what you're putting in drinks, Tyler.

I know. You're a man of many women. This fine specimen is missing the nose piercing, though. They're equally stunning, Cpt Date Rape.

Oh. I found your friends. Jaz and Barney. You guys should change your pickup names, lol.

Anyway, I'd love to stay and chat, but sleep and shit. DO NOT O.D! I don't want that shit on my conscience, fuck no. G'night, Lee.

Yes, that's what I'm thinking.

Side note; when I was at music college. A guy we would call "Old Man Dan" pulled one of the girls. Like you, he was a mature student. It is possible.

If you want classic text about attraction. I always think of the Mystery Method and demonstrating higher value. which is "leader of men, lust after by women, protector of family, and willingness to emote". Mystery and Love Drop do have a mad rant about why this is so and that it's wired into the woman's DNA.

You do need to remember that this is a guideline and doesn't help much.

Ultimately, I think you should start a band or be a DJ. When I was 18; house DJ's and Hip Hop rappers had the highest value. :yeah:

That advice you got at the beginning is the truth.

If you want a crazy idea that probably won't work,
Start up a Yoga class and be the yoga teacher. Think about it; how many boxes can you tick off from the mystery method attraction spike upload rant?

For me, part of the fun is finding out that none of this PUA advice works the way it should. But, it will build your confidence.

Of the 96 posts you've posted, so far this appears to be the only good one so far.

Why can't you post more liek this instead of being an egotistic bulshitting whining prick all the time? The overall goal of this should be to help each other, not talk shit, boast or put this place down.