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Swype · 08:52 AM

This is an interesting concept that i was made aware of by a friend of mine , this is very open ended but it pretty much revolutionised my game .

As a pua , have grace ! (simple as) I took in my own way and it changed the way i think about game as a whole . Have grace .... it's so simple but it means so much ...

The definition of grace - elegance or beauty of form, manner, motion, or action ... As a pua you should embody this !

Have grace ... what does it mean to you ?

legend · 05-03-2009, 11:30 AM

Have grace - it's too gay for me, maybe im wrong ;-)

Double O · 05-03-2009, 12:40 PM

Elegance is how I look at PUA and for me this is being unusually effective while keeping things simple. Knowing exactly when, howand in what way to interact with another individual.

russianbear · 05-03-2009, 01:13 PM

I had a girl named Grace once, so, I guess I'm able to say, I've had grace.

Swype · 02:01 PM

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Originally Posted by Double O

Elegance is how I look at PUA and for me this is being unusually effective while keeping things simple. Knowing exactly when, howand in what way to interact with another individual.

I would have say spoton there double , that's exactly how it should be done , many don't realise that yet .
Have !! Not had rb ; ) lol

And yes walt ... U r wrong

Double O · 03:06 PM

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Originally Posted by Swype

I would have say spoton there double , that's exactly how it should be done , many don't realise that yet .
Have !! Not had rb ; ) lol

And yes walt ... U r wrong

I have come to realise over the last 10+ years that this is all part of the individual PUA's development process.

Most people I have met, coached and mentored all went a bit power hungry in the beginning, me included, Every PUA I have ever known started off wanting to pick up women and lots of women because they had the false impression this is what a PUA does.....

Eventually we all realised that existing this way is shallow and we started to want more, more rewarding relationships, more depth of meaning to our lives and this is all part of the development process that PUA's go through.......

According to Maslow's hierarchy of needs it means that we have made many many improvements to our own life and now are looking for self-actualisation.

All of this is a direct result of doing lots of personal development work and becoming an excellent communicator, which should also be the goal of all PUA's and NLP Practitioners....IMHO

russianbear · 06-03-2009, 03:12 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Double O

I have come to realise over the last 10+ years that this is all part of the individual PUA's development process.

Most people I have met, coached and mentored all went a bit power hungry in the beginning, me included, Every PUA I have ever known started off wanting to pick up women and lots of women because they had the false impression this is what a PUA does.....

Eventually we all realised that existing this way is shallow and we started to want more, more rewarding relationships, more depth of meaning to our lives and this is all part of the development process that PUA's go through.......

According to Maslow's hierarchy of needs it means that we have made many many improvements to our own life and now are looking for self-actualisation.

All of this is a direct result of doing lots of personal development work and becoming an excellent communicator, which should also be the goal of all PUA's and NLP Practitioners....IMHO

I wholeheartedly agree. The self-improvement aspect is much more rewarding. The sex with beautiful women is just an added bonus, but it is not as rewarding as the other intangible improvements that take place.