Im just trying to help and Im not trying to put you off. I just think you have SPENT too much time wanting to fuck this ONE girl when they are so many other girls/opportunities knocking on your door. I emphasise the word SPENT rather than WASTED cos every interaction with the opposite sex successful or otherwise is part of the learning curve.

As for building attraction, if you have been in this forum longer, you would have read about my previous posts. Im good at building attraction over a period of time rather than the same night lays, number close, kiss close, etc..! And most of the girls I have been with are work colleagues, my gym members, etc.

Kowalski is spot on...! I chatted to this girl from work over few weeks and asked her out twice getting the same excuse of "Im busy" and not even suggesting a different time. So YES, HER LOSS cos Im AWESOME....!

Let us know how you get on. Be interested to know. Good luck!

I haven't read your posts so I only responded to what you said from a perspective of somebody who doesn't know you. Sorry if I sounded like I was putting you down.

@Covert. I was ignoring her to see if she if she would chase conversation, no need to be so uptight. I was testing the waters and I got the reaction that I expected. Now I know she needs attention.

I'm starting to doubt she's even worth this time spent but the challenge is just too mouth watering. I'm thinking I should just sit back a bit and wait a couple of weeks until she gets over her marriage/new found dates before I make a real move. Plus she's got a date every night for god knows how long so I don't want to be in the middle of that.

I wonder if any girl is worth so much time. Like Legend says there are no shortage of options in this world. It's about starting to recognise the potential of these options and what you are capable of.

Spot on.

I have made a decision to not pursue this.

Working with her all the time and actually showing her that I won't be her lapdog has shown me what kind of personality she really has underneath all the sluttyness and it's extremely generic.

Thanks for the great replies and i'll certainly check out juggler's book.

Nice one. There's better girls out there.