hey whats up puas, im a guy 5ft 2 who has a real hard time with women recently its been playing on my mind that maybe its my height that's my major barrier, ive had some success with women but not for a long LONG time, just wanted to speak to any other short guys to see their experiences and advice am i the only dude 5ft 2 who cant get women or is this a common thing?

It doesn't matter. To be all geeky; in a closed system then yes it would matter as height is a major thing in attraction but, for all practical reasons, the world has an infinite amount of women out there.

I'm short, never caused a problem for me tbh. It's probably an issue just because you see it as an issue.

What he said.

@ stien how short are you 5ft 2 is shorter then most guys who call themselves shorts

^you are not listening. It's not that you are short, it's how you feel about being short. It's making you insecure and doubt yourself which is what is really hampering you.

Instead, own that shit, and while yes a lot of women will write you off, some will find it cute if you are ok with it yourself.

How do you make yourself own it? Notice when you are getting in your head about it and try to laugh about it. Actively make fun of yourself about it. Rob the anxiety about it of it's power to affect you. Make yourself more interesting than your height. All the usual self improvement stuff really.

As has already been advised, it's only a problem for you if you make it one. Of course there are women who will literally only date 6ft+ guys, just like there are women who will only date black guys or only date guys from certain religious groups, but that's their problem not your's.

I'm 5'8, and my ex girlfriend was 6'1. There was a noticeable difference in height between us but I didn't care and neither did she. I remember we once got talking about it and she told me I was the first guy she'd dated that was under 6ft. She said normally she would never usually consider dating guys shorter than her. When I asked her what made her date me who was quite a bit shorter, she couldn't outright put her finger on it, she just said 'You're different, you're just you'. I'm no different from anyone, I'm just content with the person I am and don't let trivialities like height bother me. That was what she was attracted to, my height never mattered to her because it did't matter to me.

'Ive had some success with women'
Your words so clearly there isn't a problem.
Like everyone says you can't let barriers like that cloud your thinking.
I used to be convinced I was too slim to meet women- now there are porky lads paying bundles on dieting to be svelte - all in your head.

Also even if everyone came back and said sorry dude yes too short, no women for you ha ha!
Would you be satisified with their answer? Fuck no challenge whatever barrier your mind throws up.!

It is a tough nut to crack, I expect. I think you should become a sexual expert and this will somehow show through, superb and expert oral, etc. Somehow this will translate into your self and you will find women naturally attracted to you.

I will put it crude, but porn is the solution. Immerse yourself in porn. The promise of dirty sex will attract through you.

This feels like the blind leading the blind