^you are not listening. It's not that you are short, it's how you feel about being short. It's making you insecure and doubt yourself which is what is really hampering you.

Instead, own that shit, and while yes a lot of women will write you off, some will find it cute if you are ok with it yourself.

How do you make yourself own it? Notice when you are getting in your head about it and try to laugh about it. Actively make fun of yourself about it. Rob the anxiety about it of it's power to affect you. Make yourself more interesting than your height. All the usual self improvement stuff really.