I think Mycroft is just joking mate.

CO, for the love of god don't do any of the 4 suggestions you came up with. You don't even need to mention or talk about kissing, to mention it in that context on a first date is weird. When the moment arises you will instinctively feel it, then you do it. If you don't do it and you don't take that chance alarm bells will be going off in her head that indicate you are not congruent with the decisive, confident and leading man she thought you were.

One last thing, this is not aimed specifically at you, please...don't say things like 'I am a pick-up artist' no you're not, you're a guy who is learning and wants to be good at getting women. When you become good at that you're a guy who is good with women. Simple as. First and foremost you are a political researcher who just happens to be good with women.

The term 'pick up artist' is meaningless really, it's just convienient for forums like this to use the term. People that buy into it as 'a way of life' are deluded. At the end of the day we should all be striving to be the best people we can be, attain our career goals/ambitions and as an aside improve our ability with women.

Shit, too late - kinda already did

Ah well, isn't the end of the world...


100% mate. I think I was using it more as a term to define between my earlier chodey ways and the good suggestions made above. As I say, she's flaked on me now which is a pain. But there will be others! The HB9.5 was just the first stunningly gorgeous girl I've closed.

Onto the next one!

Onwards mate!!

I deffo agree with nova on not telling her you were going to flake, it sounds like when you have a conversation with someone and you agree with them even if you don't. For example if she says I hate cheese so you say you do too even though you love it.

I'd have said something like, that's ok i'm free friday and tuesday, and if they can't make then I try not to cancel any of my plans to meet up with a girl. Your time is valuable!

I though it was fairly obvious this was a joke!

WHOOOAAA

tbh i think you're making it dsound too-routine!!

im going to quote someone i neevr thought i would!

"Be Authentic"

Relax/Enjoy... she wouldnt agree to going on a date with you if she wants at leats mildly attracted to you.. plus when u opened her the other day, you did it with precision and ease!!!

take your foot off the gas... just have tea, sit next to her... give her a couple of kino's... put ur arm around her as your walking in.. geneerate the comfort before the sit down, the K-close will occur naturally1

Picard.

wooop, just ralsied the flake...

yeah in that case, just be casual re-arrange!



Pic.

i had a flaked Day 2 yesterday, and am about to have a Day 2 tonight... hoping i dont get my 2nd flake day2 in a row! lol

Sucks mate.

But if your recent field reports are anything to go by, you're going to be drowning in hb9s soon.

Don't worry about it, and in a couple of days txt her.

Was this to me or Pic? Or to us both?

And, assuming I don't hear from her first, when is a good time to text her next? Friday, say?

Soz, was to you mate. I think pic is already drowning in hbs.

I think two days is good. I'd stay away from the drunken Friday night txt. Friday afternoon maybe?