like i became worried about that girl messing up the ' result' when all i should have been worried about was making that k close which was the right decision, making worrying about her friend was the wrong decision ?

Yes. When you approach, just have a playful, curious state. Get to know her. Nothing is better for rapport than that. Think, "I want to get to know this woman. Find out what she's like, etc." Not, "Damn, I want to fuck her brains out." That would be results-oriented thinking.

cheers dude, and everyone else, i mean i had joined another pua website and i never got as positive feedback and helpful feed back like you guys so i do appreciate it

cenzy

It's because Double O and I are master hypnotists. We don't fuck around, we go right after the vag and pound it.

haha siiccckk

What's sick about pounding pussy?

If that's sick, then it's a sick world and I'm a happy man.

i meant sick in a good way haha

I disagree. In the back of my mind I do have an outcome in mind, which is this: I can get away with this. I don't have the same hang ups as noobs do. Not putting down the noobs, just pointing this out.

However, initially I don't approach her with the thought in my mind, "What do I need to do to fuck her." Why? Because first I want to do a couple of things: Find out if she has anything between her ears (brains and a British accent are very sexy to me). If she has corncobs between her ears then it may not be worth my time. I want to develop deep rapport with her, so I ask her questions that get to the core of her being to accomplish this. If I was only thinking about sticking my dick in her, this wouldn't happen.

Let me know if I made myself clear, if the distinction is clear. If not, I'll be hapy to polish my thoughts up.

Yeah I think what he is saying is "trust in the force Luke" and game on

Sort of. What I mean is, the game is played in the field. In order to pound vag, you have to go after it with purpose. However, that doesn't mean that while you are having a conversation you are hung up on fucking her. You don't even know her yet!!!! She may be dead on the inside. That's why, in the beginning of your interaction, you need to have a playful, curious state while you begin the sarge. You can....and will....turn up the heat later.