So well known in the community as a real shit opener but only the reason normally given as to why its so shit is "its what every chode says dude you need to be indifferent" lets look into it a bit more. as stated in a lot off sales techniques

If you do something for someone, they feel obliged to repay the favor. People feel a strong obligation to repay favors, gifts, invitations and the like. This powerful principle, applying in every society on earth, stems from the Golden Rule: “Do unto others as you would have them do unto you.”

Each of us has been taught to live up to the rule, and each of us knows that other people expect us to abide by it. If we don’t repay a favor at some stage, the other person will react badly.

The principle applies in sales situations and in relationships everywhere. You have seen it happen, probably without realizing the psychology involved: direct marketing often involves sending you a small gift or token to make you feel obliged to respond in return by signing up. When you receive something, you feel morally obliged to go along with what the other person wants. Do you recall getting a pack of unsought blank Christmas cards in the post from a charity? The charity has used the psychology of reciprocity by giving you something unexpected – and they know that enough people will feel obliged to accept the cards and pay for them to make the exercise profitable for them.

offering to buy a girl a drink before you've even spoke to her says what?

that she is the prize, that you need to give her that little gift to gain access into her precious time spent in that bar, emotionally balanced girls will simply say 'no thank you' some insecure fit women use these chode openers as a way building there state, the more chodes that offer to buy them a drink the more they are validated for all the hard work they have put into there makeup and hair.

the latter are great for the quick ride, crazy women are great in bed.

eg;

insecure hb; hey omg that scarf looks so gay are you gay?

pua; thanks

insecure hb; haha your funny, you wanna buy me a drink?

pua; i can see your the kind of girl who always gets what you want.

insecure hb; haha you know me so well;

pua; you cant have me

insecure hb; what?

pua; you heard

insecure hb; yes i can i can have any man, i always get the man i want.

pua; not this time, your not my type

(insecure hb moves in for the make out)

nope *pushes away*

hb moves in again

nope!

this continues building the sexual tension up always with that player smirk on your face till you can feel the frustration hissing out of her ears then

pua; come! lets go! (lead her to the toilets)


women will always think higher of you when you don't buy them drinks and when you become the warm end of the pool in where ever you are, you'll turn into that hb and will find all sorts of random people buying you drinks with the only thing they want in return is to be in that pool.[/size]

just to add to that, if u buy a girl without talkin to her or buy her one wen she asks it doesnt give a good impression. however if ur sittin with a girl for a while makinga connection having fun, and then say "im going to the bar to get a drink comon." then u buy her a drink, unexpedently, its creates a likeness for u as u gave her somethin, a present, it is a different scenario now, if say ur best mate bought u a drink u wud be appreciative and u wud like ur m8 more for it. a problem in the past i had was that i pretty much refused to buy a girl a drink, this makes u appear as either a cheap ass, or rude.

one such example was wen a hb9 asked me to help carry a few drinks for her, after a few mins of conversation at teh bar, me thinking im not going to be mr. nice guy any more, im not going to do wat every guy does, i told her to " go fuk " it was said playfully, i thought i wud seem like a nice guy and carrying drinks for her was giving her power over me or somethin..
she generally was askin for help cos she cudnt carry them all, i didnt recognise this and it cost me a super fit girl, so be careful and think a litle wen a girl asks somethin for u ? is it resonable? is she asking nicely? has she giving u iois?

so dont take this dont buy her a drink thing to the extreme! just dont do it as a means to buy her attention!