Successful Teaching

[picard]

Last night i tried my hand at instructing PUA.

i took two friends who had entirely different views on it, and just asked them out to a couple of bars to try a bit of sarging, using technique and advice learnt cheifly from this board.

the first mate of mine has read the game, and is a good looking dude, who probably perhaps doesnt need 'scripted material' or 'planned structure' to approach girls, however, he was more concerned about his mid-game and escalation.

the second mate was more sceptical of the ideas of gaming, and admitted afterwards that he was more there for entertainment of watching me and my first mate use different openers to talk to girls. This guy is actually a natural, with very good core-confidence, altho he admitted afterwards, that he is good, after the opener, and once he's been introduced to someone, through a mutual friend, he can escalate really well... this was proven later in the night.

We started off in one bar, which ironically, was Dead. Not a piece of skirt ANYWHERE!!! so... i said we'd sit down for 15-20 mins, have a breifing. Just get familiar with one or two abbreviations, and also basic ground rules, the main one, being, that whoever opens the set, gets firts choice. Both agreed and honoured that rule!

So after our breifing we went into bar no.2, where we knew there would be more targets. But to my dissappointment, there was hardly any.. the place was dead! However, in our town, this was the primary location for 18-25s so we stuck it out, and after an hour or so, the place padded out, til it was reasonably busy.

I made my first approach on an extremely tall girl. I love tall girls, and i think they are my primary audience. For obvious reasons... I myself an 6'3" so a tall dude. And from talkin/being with other tall girls, i get the impression, that like a lot of girls, they want to be with a man, who is bigger than them, in stature (i beleive this must be something psychological, sure). So on that theory, taller women have less options perhaps? Anyways, she was actually taller than me, wearng heels! So, my opener... a neg in a way.

Pic "So... just went for the 2inch heels today, not the regular 3 inchers?''

HB Smiles ''yeah, i was gonna wear some bigger ones!"

Pic "Oh shit, so was I, because i wanted to be the tallest person in here, but now you are!!... and btw dont tell anyone i wear heels ok, i am 6'3!"

HB more laughs 'ok ok i wont, im actually only 6'1" naturally'

Pic 'aah good then etc etc, means im deffo the champion of being taller!'

I pull a time constraint and walk off...


...reconvine 15-20mimns later

Pic "Hey Six-One"

HB 'hi etc etc...'

Pic "Hows it goin?... etc etc"

Hb 'good blah blah'

Pic " are you really 6'1? im not sure i beleive you"

-Qualification Comes In -

HB 'look i promise, let me show you....'

takes off her shoes... i grab her, and pull her next to me, initiating kino with hand round the waist and say to my mates, 'yeah what do you reckon, do we look good together or what?' ... and my mates AND HERS agree!!!

... this was where i needed my friends to do their own thing, occupy her mates and escalate! but this wasnt really happening, and i didnt want it to dry-up, so i pulled another time contraint, told them i was going to see a mate and i might catch them later....

my exit was fantastic... after telling them i might bump into them later as i walked into the crowd (to my friend) i looked at a girl, who was with a guy, smiled, touched her arm and just said 'hi' and smiled, on the move.. and she just smiled and said hi back then i continued to move through the crowd.... this was spotted by Six One and her mate... just boomed out the value!

perhaps this inteaction later in the night might have been more successful?


That was my favourite approach of the night, because it was natural and unscripted.


After that i demonstrated the shady friend, routine, and asked women for advice on what to get my sister for her birthday present, as they had 'similar fashion sense'.... both of these got us into 5-10minute conversations with sets of about 5-6 girls a piece!

The main set we gelled with came after, altho, it was kind of already established, one of my K-close targets from last week was in there, so i naturally went over and started talking, and she introduced me to all her friends, 3 blondes HB7-8s. so i introduced my friends to them, and we all hit it off... after seeing my routines, the guys by now were more confident and up for chatting, flirting, generating kino! Our Value Greatly Increased after this.. there was a point where me and my 2 guys had 5 women around us, then other sets looking in, seeing what all the fuss was about... was a great feeling! Also as the place has quite a ccmmon clientelle.. i believe that it will have future payoff aswell!

This really satisfied me as i had proven to my two mates, that they can now go out, have real fun and get surrounded by women, to whichever extent they choose!

And they themselves said, it was just fun, experimenting routines, having a laugh with it, and watching each other work!

Great Fun!

Plus i got another K-Close at the end!

Picard Out.

[Simply David]

Originally Posted by picard

a lot of girls, they want to be with a man, who is bigger than them, in stature (i beleive this must be something psychological, sure). So on that theory, taller women have less options perhaps?

I hear that braah!!

Im 6'1 and when I go out, if there is a girl who is 5'8 or more she will always give me a looking over. Women don't want to be with a shorter man, not that they're less of a man, just logistically its easier if the guy is taller, buy 3-4 inches...

Good post, you did well braah, and looks like you just made two good wings out of your mates!!