I think most would argue this is way too much of an investment to make. What's more, what makes this one worth you focusing all your energy as if she was the last girl alive?

it was exactley 30seconds of work to find out if she blocked my number or not.

...and what about the countless hours you have spent thinking about her and discussing her?

Haha reminds me of a female friend of mine (girl friend?) yesterday she was going to the ends of the earth searching for some guy she knew about town but rarely saw.

She was searching Twitter and Facebook after asking the place where he works for his name, then typing in variations etc. She's hot too, I've never seen the guy but imagine having a hot girl chasing after you that much?

From what I've read its not too stalkery, every guy has Fb checked one or two girls they've seen around but took ages finding out her proper name etc BUT the question is; is this attractive?

Sure what you did isn't a big deal in a normal sense but its certainly not attractive. Every guy has been attracted to some random barmaid and ended up frequenting it too often, its no biggie BUT its not attractive or arousing to a girl.

Kowalski, in his cunt-esque way, is saying if you want her to be attracted to you in the same way you are to her, that behaviour must be changed.

EDIT: I know what you did wasn't directly related to what I used as examples but it comes from the same neediness.

didnt dude, thats the wrong girl, this is a new plate i met this saturday, I posted once about her and thats it, coz we made out but she didnt replie to my text the next day.

Your confused with the other girl i spent countless hours to think and discuss about her on this forum.

the discussion between me and kowalski is about: findin out if she blocked me wheter thats stalking or not. about the last girl i met saturday.

Sorry, getting tangled in different threads...

1. Forget her
2. The Whats app thing is a bit stalkery, sorry.

How would they be even conscious of the stalker behaviour to be attracted or repulsed?

I think the more pressing matter lies in what is motivating the desperation to check a girl's status. This, like you mention is neediness, and no doubt is as a result of living in scarcity.

And to add, people do actually call it Facebook stalking. My girl phrased it as such as she was doing it to me, but who can blame her eh

Aye true but Im sure it would come across when/if you met up with her. Innit. Its not the end of the world though, you can probably still get with her.

Imagine you get with this girl. Great! But then what? Are you going to be suspicious of her every move, paranoid when she can't do something with you, constantly checking up on her, monitoring her fb, texting her etc?