I had an interestin night out a coupla weeks ago and I’d like to hear your thoughts. I’ll spare you the full details otherwise this’ll end up as a full field report! Basically I met a chick out and she invited me back to hers which happened to be an hours drive from where we were out and in a completely different city! Obviously I went for the adventure and to sow my oats...

Anyway her (male) friend drove us back with one other female friend. When we got to the girls place we both got out as did the female friend who unknown to me was staying there as well. When we got in the three of us started drinking again and having a good laugh – they were best friends and they were enjoying my observations about how they interact with each other (who was the dominant one etc.) The conversation started getting quite sexual and then the friend raised the idea of a threesome – cue instant reversion to everything I know that is AFC!

Although the friend was keen the girl Id come back with wasn’t and kept going on about how they’d tried it before and how it didn’t work cos she got too protective of the guy she brought home last time. I just decided to bite my lip and act like it wasn’t a big deal – IT WAS A HUGE DEAL! She eventually said no and I tried the “have you ever had a 4 handed massage? It feels amazing” to which she replied “we are not having a threesome” Busted. I had to leave it there cos I was in danger of losing the f close so I went thro with that in the end but left the next day feeling disappointed. It might be obvious but having a threesome with two chicks is my ultimate fantasy and this isn’t the first time I’ve come close.

Im too analytical for my own good and Ive been going round in circles with this one. Has anyone had a similar scenario and how should I have approached it? The way I see it if id approached it differently Im sure it could have happened as the friend was keen and the other girl was keen on me so there must’ve been a way to approach it differently. I’d love to hear your thoughts

Ace

I had a situation a few years ago where i had 2 girls in my bed and thought it was definately on! I ended up paying too much attention to one of them, the other got pissed off and left, so the one i was trying with got worried about her friend and fucked off too! Ever since i learned about the dual massage i wish i'd tried that to lower everyones inhibitions. To be fair it sounds like u were at a bit of a disadvantage in that they had already talked openly about it, i think its better when you just go with the moment and let it flow. I think it was mystery or someone who said, make it their fantasy not yours, which, given the situation, i guess you just have to get them over the LMR and do a bit of push-pull.
Saying that i'm still awaiting the elusive 3some!

I have the same problem! Infact every single time i find myself in a situation for a threesome i just cant get them to agree on one. Have you noticed that the girl you`v been on all night is always the one who doesnt want it, and the friend is up for it?
The question is this, how can you persuade the girl to share your attention?
She knows that if she says no then shes got all the attention to herself so why share?