I had an interestin night out a coupla weeks ago and I’d like to hear your thoughts. I’ll spare you the full details otherwise this’ll end up as a full field report! Basically I met a chick out and she invited me back to hers which happened to be an hours drive from where we were out and in a completely different city! Obviously I went for the adventure and to sow my oats...

Anyway her (male) friend drove us back with one other female friend. When we got to the girls place we both got out as did the female friend who unknown to me was staying there as well. When we got in the three of us started drinking again and having a good laugh – they were best friends and they were enjoying my observations about how they interact with each other (who was the dominant one etc.) The conversation started getting quite sexual and then the friend raised the idea of a threesome – cue instant reversion to everything I know that is AFC!

Although the friend was keen the girl Id come back with wasn’t and kept going on about how they’d tried it before and how it didn’t work cos she got too protective of the guy she brought home last time. I just decided to bite my lip and act like it wasn’t a big deal – IT WAS A HUGE DEAL! She eventually said no and I tried the “have you ever had a 4 handed massage? It feels amazing” to which she replied “we are not having a threesome” Busted. I had to leave it there cos I was in danger of losing the f close so I went thro with that in the end but left the next day feeling disappointed. It might be obvious but having a threesome with two chicks is my ultimate fantasy and this isn’t the first time I’ve come close.

Im too analytical for my own good and Ive been going round in circles with this one. Has anyone had a similar scenario and how should I have approached it? The way I see it if id approached it differently Im sure it could have happened as the friend was keen and the other girl was keen on me so there must’ve been a way to approach it differently. I’d love to hear your thoughts

Ace