Hi,

Bit confused about the best way to go about this - having interest from a colleague i sarged as a test subject, worked very well, but i'm unsure how to progress it due to the usual professional reasons. Walk away and take it as good practice or unleash the beast and think of the concequences later? any ideas welcome, or any other work related guidelines - i'm sure i'm not the only one!

Cheers

Dog

Sup Dog,

Personally, I make it a rare exception to game people I work with cause of the very real possibility of negative consequences but it's your call. Is she totally worth it or could you find more and better elsewhere?

"Hell hath no fury like a women scorned..."

true dat,

probably not work the hassle, bit of a bobfoc truth be told.
Good booster though - if it works on her it'll work on others. Onwards and upwards...

dog

Totally, in fact your indifference to her IOI’s will probably make her more interested giving you greater social proof at work with both men and women. Drink it in :]

cheers guys, i'll update what happens...

I'd stay the fuck away for colleagues mate!
Been there, will never go there again.

Whether it goes well or bad, one thing is pretty certain. You will be trapped with her all day, every day. If it goes really tits up and she gossips, it'll amplify the shiteness!

Nothing is worse than working with a shagable piece of ass. I have to say, as a rule, DON'T FUCK WHERE YOU WORK AND DON'T WORK WHERE YOU FUCK!!!! Give it time. You'll understand it. Don't obey this rule and you'll soon find out why I have it.

I agree that this is a bit of a tricky one. I’ve got a similar problem at the moment....Theres a girl in my office who I really wanted to get with when I started and shes one of my best mates at work now. The thing is she’s made it pretty obvious shes keen and because of that I’ve become less keen! Dunno if any of you can relate to that?!

Anyway I think its probably gonna happen at some point so I’ve just made sure she knows that Im not looking for anything other than fun at the moment. If ur honest and they know the score before hand then they cant really complain afterwards. Although in previous jobs I’ve had similar situations and no matter what you say before hand some women still feel like a slut afterwards and wont act the same around you for a while...

Ace

rtg. I would say stay away as a general rule. Maybe push and pull her a bit, use her to try out some material, but that's about it.

I slept with a couple of girls at work; One left because of it, she split with her bf, got disowned by his family, got back with him, called me through the night drunk at weekends to try and get me to be with her, until I told her to stop calling, delete my number and forget about me - she was lovely, but nuts , the other is still there and constantly on at me and we haven't touched each other for a year! I honestly didn't expect these sorts of responses and reactions. I've learnt my lesson.

I work with about 3000 other people (big newspaper co) and fortunately (or unfortunately, depending how you see it) many of the women around me are amazingly hot.

I think I'll be testing a few things on some of the girls, when I actually work out what I'm going to be testing, but that's as far as it will ever go. I'm not going through that again! xD

At the end of the day mate.....do what you want

During my AFC days I have dated a few girls via work (i cant remember who posted the statistic, but for most AFC'ers like myself, dont 60% of all relationships start at work?) Had some good positive experiences - and only on ebad one. Hate to say it, and sounds counter-intuitive and big-headed (I think that has to be the catch word of all this PUA malarkey lol), but as another poster pointed out, it did increase my social standing not only with all my male colleagues but also with my female ones bizarrely enough.

However, it was that one and last bad experience that made me utter the immortal lines "Never, ever, shit on your own doorstep!"