I agree that this is a bit of a tricky one. I’ve got a similar problem at the moment....Theres a girl in my office who I really wanted to get with when I started and shes one of my best mates at work now. The thing is she’s made it pretty obvious shes keen and because of that I’ve become less keen! Dunno if any of you can relate to that?!

Anyway I think its probably gonna happen at some point so I’ve just made sure she knows that Im not looking for anything other than fun at the moment. If ur honest and they know the score before hand then they cant really complain afterwards. Although in previous jobs I’ve had similar situations and no matter what you say before hand some women still feel like a slut afterwards and wont act the same around you for a while...

Ace