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Simply David · 22-12-2009, 10:58 AM

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Originally Posted by Your_Royal_Flyness

It makes no sense to pay any serious attention or "go direct" to the following women in the club:
-women in groups of 4 or more (the chances she'll leave her flock of friends is next to none)
-female attention whores (girls who dance on each other and wear skimpy outfits but reject every guy who approaches)
-women who come to the club with "guy friends" (they're f*cking...unless their related. Either way, it's not going to happen)
-women who've already seen you, yet show no signs of interest (IOI's, as you might say)

Instead, these are the woman who you should target
-Women who come in a group of 3 or less (a woman who comes alone is perfect)
-Women who've already shown interest in you (smiled at you, have made eye contact, asked you a random question, brushed by you, etc)
-Women who are slightly more reserved. You'll be surprised that THESE are the biggest freaks

Gosh, I was out on Saturday with an old mate and he wanted to approach big sets and sets similar to the other 3 you mentioned but something didnt seem right with it.

You've hit the nail on the head there and saved me a lot of energy!

Cheers!!

nova · 22-12-2009, 10:59 AM

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Originally Posted by Your_Royal_Flyness

Honestly, telling a woman she's "stunningly beautiful" is nothing she's probably never heard 1000 times earlier that week....and she'll only be flattered if she finds you attractive first.

I totally disagree with this statement. Like a good comedian, it all boils down to HOW you say it and how you behave. Also, think about this. Would she not find you attractive for putting your balls on the line? Attraction on a girl's part is build of many building blocks and 'balls' features heavily.

I therefore doubt 1000 blokes have plucked up the courage to tell her that week. This is an assumption.

Hustler25 · 22-12-2009, 01:32 PM

@ Your_Royal_Flyness

Makes alot of sense. Although with Nova I do believe if you tell a girl with enough conviction and sincerity you believe she's beautiful there is no harm in that, and it can work in your favor. However I do agree with you that if in that 5-10 seconds of your initial approach and compliment there is no spark of attraction and she brushes it off then it's unlikely you are going to turn it around.

Summer Junky · 22-12-2009, 05:53 PM

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Originally Posted by Your_Royal_Flyness

There are always exceptions, but if these rules are followed, you'll encounter the least resistance and save a TON of energy.

You don't need to make up any rules about going out and chatting up women, just take it as it comes. I actually find the more times I go direct the more energetic I get. Even after bad interactions now, I still get on a high because I just get a buzz from telling women how much I fancy them.