hey guys, im currently attempting online pick up, and im on plenty of fish, has anyone got any good experience and techniques to break the hb 10s?

troy

Dude are you in Carmarthen, Im going there on Sunday to see some family - fuck its a small world!!!!!!!!!!

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Just have fun bro, thats the key to all this.

I’ve had a bash at plenty of fish over the last couple of months. I like it because I can do it whilst I’m at work and getting paid to arrange dates for myself makes me happy! I’ve had a couple of shags out of it as well so worth the effort…

My experience has been that photo’s tend to lie… I have not met a girl from there yet who lives up to the carefully chosen pic! So aim for the hotties, if they look a bit rough on there you can bet they will look like a tramp in real life.

My main tip would be to make sure your profile doesn’t just ramble on about crap you think you like and how much of a nice guy you are. My first profile attempt did that and I got zilch, now my profile says how I like to carve Russian dolls and melt kilo blocks of cheese to drink as a beverage. I get much better results with that, I think because it stands out more… Of course if the girl has no sense of humour she won’t bite but then I’m not interested in those girls anyway.

The good thing is that if I do arrange a date the girls seem to already be in the mindset that they like you so you don’t need to work that hard to get them where you want them

Check this thread. And K has put a few links from similar threads in there too...! It is a contentious issue in this forum but good luck.
Online Dating

cheers troops

troy

Hey Troy,

I have personally met over 300 women online many of which from POF, but when I started, I had NO IDEA how to do it. Generally speaking, meeting women online is very similar to meeting women in person. It is all about your vibe, your confidence and the aura you project. Online you must show this in your profile, your pics and in your messages. Once you have it down, it's easy...no matter how high on the "HB" scale she is.

Here are some quick tips you want keep in mind, which is the reason why most guys are not successful:
-Avoid bathroom mirror photos and photos w/ your shirt off
-Keep messages brief and never reveal TOO MUCH of yourself
-Never exchange more than 5 messages with a woman (you two should be on the phone, by then)
-Getting her on the phone within 2 days is BEST, if not the same day--esp. if you two are online at the same time
-Never compliment her on her "beauty"...you'll sound like every other guy on earth
-Also, do not make the same mistake as many PUA guys and be too "robotic"...let her FEEL your energy!

Specifically on POF, be careful not to sound corny or boring in your message section. In coaching other guys, you'd be shocked at some of the stuff I've seen.

Good luck and I definitely recommend checking out my books (signature), specifically "From MySpace to My Place." It will give you the ins and outs to setting up a profile that attracts women, how to "figure them out" based on their profiles, drafting your first note, conversation flow, first date tips and even has chats I've actually had with women.

Good luck, man! PM me any questions and I'll get to them when I can!

Flyness

have to say, i repsectfully disagree on this.

If you mean, the procedural elements; presenting yourself, generating interest, escalating etc... then OK perhaps there are some similarities

but...

Online there is not REAL proof of what the perosn is really like in the real world. Its so much easier to type lines into a facebook chat box, reveiw it, correct for spelling, have time to think about everything, perhaps even have another window open with material on hand.... You cant do that in a club.

Neither can you really know exactly what the girl looks like. Online Profile photos are about as reliable as a KFC Menu Board.... They look delicious, but you never see all the grease and fat on the pictures LOL!

Also, in person, you have to consider more elements. Your voice, tone, posture, body language, clothes, grooming, the list goes on...

Not to mention you are on-the-spot, have no desk and computer screen to hide behind when it goes wrong.

Dont get me wrong, online gaming can be good, and results do come form it, but i definately think its a different kettle of fish compared to the real thing!

Picard Out.

I agree entirely with that picard. 'Gaming' girls online is fine as a side project if you're pushed for time or would like to experiment or whatever but it should never be your only source for meeting women. There are plenty of pitfalls with online dating. It's very easy to create an attractive persona online most able thinking guys can do this for themselves, being congruent with that persona and displaying those attractive characteristics when you actually meet is where most guys fail. This is because the smokescreen is then gone and all is revealed and you have to just wing it.

Instead of developing an online persona that is attractive to girls it is far better to develop your own real-world persona that is instantly attractive to women in the real-world. If you have this locked down whether you're picking up girls out on the town or online it doesn't matter because your persona is consistent, i.e. being true to your authentic self.

hey guys thanks for all the posts, they have been really helpful, and at the minute im out of the country, so online dating is all i got, until i get home.........

i find it the best sight for picking up girls, u can get stright on hb 10s they been fucked about so much b4 i just exploited her weakness hope that helps mate.....