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Originally Posted by picard
have to say, i repsectfully disagree on this.
If you mean, the procedural elements; presenting yourself, generating interest, escalating etc... then OK perhaps there are some similarities
but...
Online there is not REAL proof of what the perosn is really like in the real world. Its so much easier to type lines into a facebook chat box, reveiw it, correct for spelling, have time to think about everything, perhaps even have another window open with material on hand.... You cant do that in a club.
Neither can you really know exactly what the girl looks like. Online Profile photos are about as reliable as a KFC Menu Board.... They look delicious, but you never see all the grease and fat on the pictures LOL!
Also, in person, you have to consider more elements. Your voice, tone, posture, body language, clothes, grooming, the list goes on...
Not to mention you are on-the-spot, have no desk and computer screen to hide behind when it goes wrong.
Dont get me wrong, online gaming can be good, and results do come form it, but i definately think its a different kettle of fish compared to the real thing!
Picard Out.
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Hey Picard,
I did not say "meeting women online is
exactly like meeting them in person"...I used the words, "generally speaking" and "very similar". In fact, I'm sure all of you can attest to women being
quite deceptive in person, as well. I've been on dates with women who've used "buttpads" in their jeans and dresses, along with women who've had cosmetic surgery, including "butt injections". This is not to mention push-up bra's, girdles, and hair weaves. One of my friends even met a woman who turned out to be a transvestite. Ha!
Deception can take place both online and offline.
When online, one can encounter a TON of deception. Fat/bigger women who pucker their face to appear thinner, photoshopped pictures and women who use other women's photos altogether. There are, however, some warning signs that are quite
easy to spot,
IF you know what to look for.
Yet one can also argue that meeting women online has its advantages. Versus meeting a woman, say in a nightclub, or on the street, a Facebook profile for instance gives you an
instant snapshot of what she's about. A typical Facebook users' profile will list her education level, interests, relationship status, as well as whom she considers her friends. Any real
PUA/mack/player, etc knows how vital this information is when learning about his target. In addition and probably most revealing, are her photos. There are very few women who post less than 50 photos on any given facebook profile. This gives you great "intel" on what she likes to do. The possible conversation topics are endless.
With technology becoming more and more social, it makes sense to explore meeting women via the internet as well.
There is no "wrong way" or "better way" to meet a woman. Yet, as I've said countless times in interviews and in my books, the goal is to get her
in person. Me and my friends continuously meet women off the internet and bring them to a "date" within the day and sometimes within the hour. And once you meet, your online games flows into your offline game like a river into an ocean. By the end of the night, the only mouse she's clicking is in your pants.