Hey,

Has anyone ever had this.....I have known this one girl for over a year now and we have played around but just not had sex yet. I dont want a relationship from her, I just want to have sex with her for my own pride and to say I have shagged her, I used to want her really badly as a girlfriend but have seen the light and realised she aint gf material (we established that in 'Girls dont make any sense'), I have this sort of burning desire to shag her, then believe I can move on. I think its some variation of oneiotis, however i have just got news that one of our mates beat me to it. It sorta feels like I have lost the challenge, lost the game! That his game is better than mine, when I know for a fact he has no game. He has done everything you not meant to, but still has the girl! The problem is I live this girl too, she lives next door to me!

Anyone had a similar experience? Is this oneiotis? Am I being a stupid afc?

Peace

NO.FX

I think you need to examine your motives for wanting to shag this girl. "To say that I've shagged her" is not a socially awesome reason for wanting to shag her. If it's because she's fit or exactly your type, then good for you. If it's to look like a pimp in front of others, you need to change how you see her. Do things for your own reasons, not anyone else's.

As for the girl, carry on going about your business of being an awesome guy. Don't get over this feeling of wanting to fuck her. It's a good thing. But don't let it jeopardise your ascension to awesomeness with women in general. Sooner or later you'll start getting that "I'm good with women and I could get any woman I want" glow, and who knows, she might just throw herself at you. Most girls will.

Blanca's right. Your motives are flawed. You should shag a girl for your own enjoyment. Not to boost your confidence or to impress others. Sex is to be enjoyed, not looked upon by outsiders as a badge of honour. Chasing down this girl seems pointless. I don't think that you should model your behaviour in order to get this girl to throw herself at your however. Once you have got yourself out there involved with more girls you will simply wonder why you cared about this girl so much!

I assume this is the same girl you mentioned in another thread. Move on mate. Give yourself a chance of progressing and go out and meet others. She'll only bog you down.

Oh no, not the bitch!!

You just want to show her you're the man and dominate her. Shame your mate beat you to it.

Dont worry, there will be other bitches waiting for you...

I've done this twice :/ (before joining the community) One of the girls I told the score outright... Told her this is for fun only and if its fun it might be on going but only fun. Had sex once gained a stalker for life.

Other girl I had been casually having fun with for a while... Then we had sex and the fun stopped but this was just before I read the game and my game got alot worse at first because I started thinking about things... (went away when I swapped it out for natural) Tbf I wish I hadn't had sex with her because if I hadn't I would still have a fall back if I didn't pull and a no questions asked BJ whenever I wanted lol. And she gave dam good head!

Think it is down to the unique situation some girls are very different... But I would say move on from what I've read. Oneits in any form is bad and should be avoided unless you're looking to settle in my books...

Meh. Good luck deciding. Sex can be the forbidden fruit as in my 2nd example... and you certainly wouldn't want the first its a nightmare.

Much Love
Dave xX