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very good point indeed!

i had a similar situation...

when i first went out on a planned sarging mission... i was trying to conquer AA and so, i kept telling myself to approach more or less every girl i see...

...anyways, one girl who i opened and gamed, noticed that i was talking to loads of girls that night, she said 'crickey how many girls have you chatted to tonight?'

weary of this detection, i somehow came out with 'i lost count, how many women have YOU chatted to then?' (with a cheeky smile on my face).

managed to turn the detection into a bit of C/F game.

perhaps that might be a way of overcoming it?

i like to think that i gave her the impression that im a popular person, and it confirmed to me that she must have been at least slightly interested, to notice my actions that night, following my discussion with her.

after my 3rd encounter with her that night, i got a #close.

i say... dont let closing/escalation limit your options, be mindful of other sets, and use them against each other, women love competition!

Picard.

Depends on situation - who your out with, where youre at, but I know where you're coming from.

If you've bailed and want to come back you have to return and still be the Man. If you've decided this is your target then I think approaching other girls direct would be a no no as you're clearly only after any girl.

If you're not out with mates, try making chit chat with some guys, even other guys with their GF, it can show value too as you're a socail guy.

Failing that go out side smoke a fag, make a phone call and come back, if she likes you the shouldnt be hard to go back in, but going in strong with a story about the phone call you just had or something that has happened recently... you get me, get back in set and pick up the pieces.

The trick is to chat to girls and guys. If done correctly, rather than seeing you as someone who approaches loads of girls, you want to be seen as an incredibly social, friendly guy.

Easier said than done, but that's what you should aim for. Open more mixed sets, you'll also experience less AA and gain more experience.

Tw1sted's point was proven by Dave Ananas our pineapple; a great prop to talk to both guys and girls, and indeed get pics taken! Got us involved with a few girls who saw us as fun, social guys. I got good results

Shouldnt you be reading in your room.

For once I'm inclined to believe Kowalski is right - that we are indeed drifting into the arena of the unwell.

Anyway, on to your issue Adam. I say to just run one set to completion before trying another. By all means be social with people and enjoy yourself, but pick one target at a time. Rather than half-doing 5 sets, fully do 1 set. If it works, you'll get a number or a kiss. If not, regroup and try another one.

I used to worry about this a lot...

'Fuck what if she sees me talking to some other girl. I shouldn't even look at another girl. She'll think I'm scum!'

Now I find the opposite is true. Talk to as many people as possible, girls, guys the lot.

Once you don't look like you are blatantly hitting on as many chick as possible or being a dancing monkey you will be fine. Hell half the time you would get away with this too.

You want to be the prize right!

In the event she asks if you always talk to so many girls; say ' I'm not talking to them, they are talking to me, you must have been keeping an eye on me' Or Picards very
good line.

Hey mate I'm totally with you on this one. My mind is always on the punani (ha I hate that word but I said it anyway.) The truth is though you can have an interesting conversation with just about anyone, you've just got to do most of the talking with some people.