For once I'm inclined to believe Kowalski is right - that we are indeed drifting into the arena of the unwell.

Anyway, on to your issue Adam. I say to just run one set to completion before trying another. By all means be social with people and enjoy yourself, but pick one target at a time. Rather than half-doing 5 sets, fully do 1 set. If it works, you'll get a number or a kiss. If not, regroup and try another one.