Got talking through Facebook to a 10 on the bizarrest of topics, now DHVing ....
She requested me on Facebook, I sent her a message after, no reply.
I left it for damn near a month but commented on 2 of her status posts, slightly increasing my DHV at all times.
Then she post about her in pain so I'm pretty good at this, studied Medical for 2 year so I messaged her again and we got talking about it ... - I didn't know at the time but I was DHVing as someone with interesting knowledge, she even said that later that night. She started crying, was scared and DLVing herself quite a lot so I picked her up a bit.
Next day I ask her how the pain is (maybe a little too try hard idk) and she responds and includes light flirting and she was in bed when she was talking to me. She also tells me that she's going to Edinburgh on Tuesday. Not much came of that night, I wanted to show slight disinterest.
Tuesday I message her about Edinburgh and "" emotions start been used more frequently. Not much talking that day as she was busy and so was I; England football game damn it! So I told her to post a picture of somewhere in Edinburgh and I'll try and guess it (little game to show fun). She didn't post ...

So she ignored that message and didn't post a picture. Now I thought 'well now I should just not message her today (wednesday)' .. Good idea??

I have a seminar that I'm leading tomorrow to about 200 guys with 2 hot female friends of mine. So I thought this would be perfect to legitimately DHV quite a lot.
So she also has a doctors appointment (that I told her to get) so I was thinking of sending her this message in the morning.

"Tell me how it goes at the docs, ***** was worst case scenario and don't be scared just relax. I'm leading a seminar in 10 minutes for a bunch of guys and then taking my female friends that are helping me out to dinner as a thankyou, so we'll talk better later on today. Hope you had fun with the gingers in Edinburgh, not too many of them huh? Good luck!"


What do you think. Is this good DHVing or any better ideas?

Thanks in advance guys

Thinking of ways/methods to get her isn't a very good plan

Telling her that you are taking your female friends just comes across as try-hard, most normal people would just say friends.

just send her a message this evening or tomorrow morning whenever it's convenient for you asking how it went at the docs and if they had to amputate anything

Seems like she's still not that interested, and you seem to be putting in more effort than her. If she's not dropping any IOIs it might be time to move on..

Bomb-

IOI's are there, granted not a load but hell we've hardly talked so I can't expect her to do everything I say.


daleinthedark - Your right, specifically stating female friends does come across as try hard. I knew there was something wrong with it, I guess I was trying to show some kind of woman pre-selection (although admittedly quite stupidly). I'm not really thinking of ways to get her, rather I want to find ways to better show DHV to 9/10's as they are much harder than the rest. "Amputate anything" shit I like that

High value is relative

Still relative

Being upset isnt lower value, its just being upset

Why?

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Posting pics up for the benefit of someone you have never met is weird. ur not gonna get public displays from her.

Why would she care if u have female friends?

U are badly over thinking this whole PUA thing. just have a normal conversation, if u wana be genuinly interested in her... DO IT

if she is boring you, dont listen.

Dont be doing shit coz u think it will appease the PUA gods. just be true to what u feel. If its interesting, Engage. If not, dont.

Stop over thinking. STOP IT NOW!

be cool

People seem to say that 9/10's are 'different' to the rest so I was wanting to talk to this girl and DHV in order to gain experience with 9/10's.

I agree I am way over thinking this, slightly because I want to get it right but also mainly because I want to understand the experience and find ways of improvement.

"High value is relative" - Can you explain what you mean here?

I would suggest you get out more, there is far too much needy focus on her. The biggest issue here is you trying to look interested in her, when, well... why would you be (except her looks)? She will see this a mile off and had sheds loads of guys do the same thing.

high value to me is a dark hair petite girl, with morals, someone who likes music etc etc

yours could be goth red heads who love politics & ethics.

in all your projecting this image of high value, you may remind her of someone she hates. So all you can ever do is be yourself, act how you want to act. and fuck them if they dont like it.