IOI's are there, granted not a load but hell we've hardly talked so I can't expect her to do everything I say.
daleinthedark - Your right, specifically stating female friends does come across as try hard. I knew there was something wrong with it, I guess I was trying to show some kind of woman pre-selection (although admittedly quite stupidly). I'm not really thinking of ways to get her, rather I want to find ways to better show DHV to 9/10's as they are much harder than the rest. "Amputate anything" shit I like that