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RobBJJ · **Risk of becoming over exposed -** 23-03-2013, 12:16 PM

Doing day game in a city of only 330,000 people I'm wondering how long it will take before getting known as the creepy guy who goes about chatting up in the city centre

SmileyK · 23-03-2013, 12:51 PM

It's only creepy if you think it is. Why not re-frame this into meeting new people, gaining new references and, ultimately, having fun

Shahanshah · 02:33 PM

Why not chat-up girls in normal places/times. If you're out and about chat up girls then fine. If you're at the club do it there.

But walking around the city centre just looking for girls to chat up will make you look weird, as it is.

Hustler25 · 23-03-2013, 03:20 PM

Rob. 333,000 is a lot of people, I wouldn't worry about it. My city 1/3 the size. If you're a bit socially retarded and you come off as creepy then yeah it's probably going to 'creep' people out. If you're just chill and at ease talking to girls you like in the day I don't see why anyone would think that's creepy.

I don't get why people find it weird to chat to girls you like in the day. It's the same intent as 'Night game' except contextually different, the sun is out and you're not getting lagered up.

If you were to walk the streets of your home town at 11.30am pissed out of your tree stumbling over to girls then yes, that would be creepy.

sapmi · 23-03-2013, 03:43 PM

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Originally Posted by RobBJJ

Doing day game in a city of only 330,000 people I'm wondering how long it will take before getting known as the creepy guy who goes about chatting up in the city centre

It's a good amount of people, Coventry is a reasonable size city. In order to get good, you're gonna have to push yourself. Going out to intentionally sarge is a good thing, look at Nova's thread for example. Despite what other people say here, you need to go out regularly to get good. What you call these "outings" is your concern (shopping trips, sarging trips, dossing trips etc). You need to commit to how often you will go out, with goals to achieve (I will approach x number of women). The majority of people in their everyday lives don't care what you do, so the classic rule exists here "don't give a fuck what anyone thinks"........now go out and practice!!

Shahanshah · 23-03-2013, 04:31 PM

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Originally Posted by sapmi

It's a good amount of people, Coventry is a reasonable size city. In order to get good, you're gonna have to push yourself. Going out to intentionally sarge is a good thing, look at Nova's thread for example. Despite what other people say here, you need to go out regularly to get good. What you call these "outings" is your concern (shopping trips, sarging trips, dossing trips etc). You need to commit to how often you will go out, with goals to achieve (I will approach x number of women). The majority of people in their everyday lives don't care what you do, so the classic rule exists here "don't give a fuck what anyone thinks"........now go out and practice!!

Approaching 'x amount of girls' is actually a really bad frame.