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RobBJJ 23-03-2013 12:16 PM

Risk of becoming over exposed
 
Doing day game in a city of only 330,000 people I'm wondering how long it will take before getting known as the creepy guy who goes about chatting up in the city centre

SmileyK 23-03-2013 12:51 PM

It's only creepy if you think it is. Why not re-frame this into meeting new people, gaining new references and, ultimately, having fun

Shahanshah 23-03-2013 01:32 PM

Why not chat-up girls in normal places/times. If you're out and about chat up girls then fine. If you're at the club do it there.

But walking around the city centre just looking for girls to chat up will make you look weird, as it is.

Hustler25 23-03-2013 03:20 PM

Rob. 333,000 is a lot of people, I wouldn't worry about it. My city 1/3 the size. If you're a bit socially retarded and you come off as creepy then yeah it's probably going to 'creep' people out. If you're just chill and at ease talking to girls you like in the day I don't see why anyone would think that's creepy.

I don't get why people find it weird to chat to girls you like in the day. It's the same intent as 'Night game' except contextually different, the sun is out and you're not getting lagered up.

If you were to walk the streets of your home town at 11.30am pissed out of your tree stumbling over to girls then yes, that would be creepy.

sapmi 23-03-2013 03:43 PM

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Originally Posted by RobBJJ (Post 73449)
Doing day game in a city of only 330,000 people I'm wondering how long it will take before getting known as the creepy guy who goes about chatting up in the city centre

It's a good amount of people, Coventry is a reasonable size city. In order to get good, you're gonna have to push yourself. Going out to intentionally sarge is a good thing, look at Nova's thread for example. Despite what other people say here, you need to go out regularly to get good. What you call these "outings" is your concern (shopping trips, sarging trips, dossing trips etc). You need to commit to how often you will go out, with goals to achieve (I will approach x number of women). The majority of people in their everyday lives don't care what you do, so the classic rule exists here "don't give a fuck what anyone thinks"........now go out and practice!!

Shahanshah 23-03-2013 04:31 PM

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Originally Posted by sapmi (Post 73456)
It's a good amount of people, Coventry is a reasonable size city. In order to get good, you're gonna have to push yourself. Going out to intentionally sarge is a good thing, look at Nova's thread for example. Despite what other people say here, you need to go out regularly to get good. What you call these "outings" is your concern (shopping trips, sarging trips, dossing trips etc). You need to commit to how often you will go out, with goals to achieve (I will approach x number of women). The majority of people in their everyday lives don't care what you do, so the classic rule exists here "don't give a fuck what anyone thinks"........now go out and practice!!

Approaching 'x amount of girls' is actually a really bad frame.

Shahanshah 23-03-2013 04:33 PM

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Originally Posted by Hustler25 (Post 73455)

If you were to walk the streets of your home town at 11.30am pissed out of your tree stumbling over to girls then yes, that would be creepy.

Funnily enough me and Jynx did that and it was hilarious.

nova 23-03-2013 06:14 PM

If you feel it's weird it'll be weird. As i aim to express my authentic self, it can only be positive.

nova 23-03-2013 06:54 PM

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Originally Posted by Shahanshah (Post 73457)
Approaching 'x amount of girls' is actually a really bad frame.

Why would it be a bad frame?

misterb 23-03-2013 09:39 PM

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Originally Posted by nova (Post 73460)
Why would it be a bad frame?

1st post here and I'm questioning why exactly this is wrong?


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