Hey guys

I am having trouble in this stage of the game. I could kiss a girl just by using my body language without even talking to them but the issue is that what to do after. Because they just leave after that and I don't know what to talk to them what to Ask them to take them home. Is it coz I've a little bit of an Indian strain in my accent as I'm Indian? Does that affect it?

It would be really helpful if I could get a solution to this problem. Thanks guys.

The Indian strain being a problem is all in your head, if you beilved indian sounded cool it would help you..

I'm assuming your talking about on a dance floor right? Otherwise I would advise talking to the girl before you kiss her..

If you kiss them with only your body language it surely isn pt hard for you to take them to a quite section with it to talk? Just grabbing the hand and leading them tends to do the trick if they're comfortable enough to kiss you but your gonna have to talk once you moved them and that's a bit of a broad subject.

I suggest you Give it a go, try and fail a few times and come back with an actual point at which your stuck..

Db

Thanks for the reply. I have tried that but I have trouble taking them away from their friends sometimes. And I think I talk fine but there's something that is missing. I run out of topics while speaking. This is a big issue. Knowing what to say and when to say. I go blank. N when I try talking to a girl on the dance floor before making out they just go away. With my body language if they give me an indicator like a smile or a wink I go closer and start making out. But after that either they don't want to leave their friends and go or I don't know what to say next?

I mean I ask them their name for a start and then ask if they are having a good night?

Sounds like you need to start practicing talking to random people more. The only reason you are going blank is because you're not relaxed. You have plenty to say to your close friends and family no? Start doing some approaches where you just talk to girls first.

Ahh, and there's me battling to kiss girls. You sound like you don't have any issues with that.

Ya. With that. I have many friends most of them being girls. Issue is closing them. Seems like I end up being in the friend zone too much. And the girls I pick up just kiss me and that's the end. I have a very high success rate in that. But after that point, you are right that I'm not relaxed coz I don't know what to talk about next? What do I start with? I can start conversations well but the problem is keeping them going and in the right direction where you want them to lead to. That is not happening.

I think for kissing. Body language is the most important thing n if you can just pretend to be confident and keep a smile on your face, it's not that hard. You just need to wait for the response and then just close as soon as you get it without delay or else you lose the opportunity. Try it. It works for me. Always. I have kissed like 7 in one night lol. But the trouble is taking them home.

1) make sure your talking loud enough.

2) check your tone and pace, it wants to be "breaking rapport" low and dominant and rather than value speaking and soft. Pace should be slow don't be rushing.

3) make sure your body language is still good and doesn't flake and show your expecting rejection.

4) get out of your head don't worry about what to say I usually open with what's your name, they then ask me and I'll usually ask them to guess and the conversation can turn playful from there DROP ANY SILLY 'PUA' LINES.

Do the above, fail and repeat.

Also play with mid sentence pauses to build intrigue, be vague and leave bits out that make them want more.

Remember your testing if they're good enough for you aswell and it's not only your job to make conversation.

Db

Sounds good. I think when they ask me my name it's a trouble making them understand coz it's not an easy name as its indian and everyone ends up saying 'what?' N that pisses me off coz that's the end of their interest. The pua lines or routines just don't strike my mind at that point of time. I forget them.

Maybe get a nickname and ask them to guess your nickname? But you gotta think of your own ways, sometimes I just prod a girl and say hi with the right body language anything works.