The Indian strain being a problem is all in your head, if you beilved indian sounded cool it would help you..

I'm assuming your talking about on a dance floor right? Otherwise I would advise talking to the girl before you kiss her..

If you kiss them with only your body language it surely isn pt hard for you to take them to a quite section with it to talk? Just grabbing the hand and leading them tends to do the trick if they're comfortable enough to kiss you but your gonna have to talk once you moved them and that's a bit of a broad subject.

I suggest you Give it a go, try and fail a few times and come back with an actual point at which your stuck..

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