[quote=Knave;55275]I found that other people hindered me in my success, I was typically better on my own anyway. You have nothing to hold you back its a case 'Hi' here I am, I don't have any distractions, I don't ahve to worry about my friends having a good time or what to do if she blows my friend out, non of this is relevant.

You'll get so much respect from women who like a guy with the balls to go out by himself, but it really isn't a big deal because you go out by yourself and no one gives a fuck you were out by yourself anyway.

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I have exactly same experience with friends f..... up my success in so many ways but I also try to go out on my own ages ago but it was very strange experience.... First time I was too much in my head and that was very bad and I felt like the biggest AFC in the world .... second time I had one of those shitty days when everything goes wrong and u just have to go out for a drink not caring about anything and I was getting approached quite a lot by sympathetic ladies (two of them were very interested in knowing where I lived ...and Yes I know I should have taken them back home and let them comfort me ) but I was not in the mood to start any kind of conversation I was just laughing when they said that they r gonna get a drink and then come back ....Well I better find my balls , put them where they belong and just do it.... Wish me luck and will definitely write about my night out ....

I did a lot of solo game in central london last year, so here's what I'd suggest. Take it in baby steps and remember and first your only goal should be to PRACTISE. Don't worry about getting laid or getting good reactions, focus on getting comfortable.

Start with a few openers on the street before you go to a club. It's less pressure and it'll help get you in 'pickup mode'. Then when you get in take your first goal to just be the approach, i.e. if you approach you've already won for that night, no matter what happens. Then once you're comfortable with that focus on voice, body language, handling sets etc.

I also think you should keep looking for wings, and split it evenly between solo game and game with a group. After going out doing solo game the safety net of a group and the help of a decent wing will make it seem easy and help to get you results. I'm out all the time and glad to head out with new guys, just message me.

Remember, this doesn't happen overnight, but if you stick to using solo game to practise it'll help you make awesome progress

What do you say when a girl says " Why are you out on your own" ?

I've gone out with friends before, and then ended up losing them. And still ended up chatting to new women and NEVER been asked.

But if I was.. I'd say: I lost my friends in the club.. or, they aren't answering their phones! GAYS!

That's only a problem if you hit up a small bar or something. In a club it never ever comes up. If a girl's into you she won't care. The thing is if they see you talking to other groups of people they automatically assume that you're with them. No one assumes you're out on your own. When you think about it why would they?

Worst case scenario will a girl ask 'where are your friends? after a while. Some guys actually admit theyre out on their own, but I've never really tried that. I just go 'somewhere around here. Let's go find them!' Then use that to isolate. You could even use the same idea to extract.

I remember the first night I got a same night lay the guys I wqs out with had bailed to anothed club, and before we left the girl said 'let's go say bye to your friends!' So I just went up to a set I did earlier well friendly and told them I was getting out of here. No problem.

dont go out on ur own!!! go out with ur mates & if they are that bad, just ditch them and go off on ur own, then when they ask

say, i came out with friends but i needed a bit of time away from them, they are doin my head in... u can go meet up with them again later then

but to be fair, u shouldnt be goin out purely to get birds

(unless u are plannin on fuckin them that night) in which case they should still be ur second behined havin a laff)

ye but, ur then hiding the fact ur out on ur own.... and if your hiding it, then your agreeing there is somethin wrong with it.

and if you are ashamed of it you shouldnt be doing it

so if your out on ur own, i think u should be saying Im out on my own....

Why,


Coz i can!

or perhaps get new friends

The question does come up, I just said I felt like coming out so I did and here I am? Next question?

Girl: Who are you out with?
Me: My mum, she's just putting my coat away

Girl: Where are your friends?
Me: I don't have any, wanna be my new friend?

Cockblocking Girl: You don't wanna get with him, he's a playa.
Me: *smile* yep thats right, you dont wanna get with me I'll break your heart

A girl that I know, telling other girls that I'm a player is ultimate jackpot IMO, not a cock block. It's only a cockblock if you take it as one and let it fuck your game. My translation would be - this guy has abundance and has picked you, but could easily leave at any point and pick someone else, girls won't often admit it but deep down they like players. Damn I even tell girls I'm a player and don't do relationships and they like me even more for it.