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Default 24-04-2012, 09:46 PM

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Well that was my initial thought, but just trying to learn.
Follow this mindset more...

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You are probably thinking you'd like to try pull this girl, which is looking way too far ahead.

You could just be thinking you'd like to say hello to this person, I'm sure you can manage that.
... and see how you get on first. Don't start filling your head with expectations and targets. Like you said, baby steps. The fact you have the urge to say hello to these girls is a good start. Years ago, this was completely out of my reality.


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Default 24-04-2012, 10:26 PM

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... and see how you get on first. Don't start filling your head with expectations and targets. Like you said, baby steps. The fact you have the urge to say hello to these girls is a good start. Years ago, this was completely out of my reality.
Ok thanks fella


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Default 26-04-2012, 10:58 AM

My advice for ‘day game’:

• Be going somewhere.
• Be doing something.
• Be excellent.

If in anyway shape or form you accidentally communicate the idea that you are ‘walking around the streets fishing for pussy' you’ll go home with your dick in your hand.

Moreover you’ll probably go home with your dick in your hand anyway for a variety of other reasons too. Many of which it won’t be in your power to control or influence.

I think what a lot of PUA dorks say about day game is horse shit. Clubs and bars are a natural environement for interaction with strangers, trains and street corners aren’t. I dunno about you but I think when most people are going about their business during the day they are busy, and they are focused on what they are doing and where they are going. Stopping them for a chat can be annoying.

People during the day are probably going to be in very logical rather than emotional frame of mind and so far less likely to be open minded and relaxed enough to be open to romance, seduction and sex.

Women that are wondering around aimlessly during the day are probably either:

• Tourists.
• They are spending some man’s money.

Now there are plenty of women you can score with and fuck that belong to the above two groups but they also present unusual problems. Tourists only here for a short stay might be reluctant to meet you for a drink and a fuck in a strange city they don’t know so well or transversely might be up for letting you take them out for drinks, confident that they can skip town before having to give you some. Women spending some man’s money…may well take you for a ride, because that might well be what they ‘do’. They might appreciate the attention and validation but then mention the boyfriend and skip off after you’ve wasted three hours making her feel good about herself for no reason.

If you must hit on women during the day, I suggest you do so as part of your natural routine. Go out shopping for the shit you need anyway and ask nearby women you like the look of for input and advice in relation to it. Make her LAUGH. Notice things about her about the bags she's carrying and the shops she's been to etc. Ask leading questions, give her the opportunity to talk about herself. If she jumps at the opportunity you give her (without mentioning a bf) chances are she's attracted and available and is wanting you to ask for her number. So do it.

But don't expect much from this. It's a bit of a numbers game atleast in my experience atleast.

Hope this helps.


"The hero and the coward both feel the same thing, but the hero uses his fear, projects it onto his opponent, while the coward runs. It's the same thing, fear, it's what you do with it that matters."

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Default 26-04-2012, 12:48 PM

Wow, quite a few limiting beliefs for avoiding day game there Joker. I think you should have included 'make them laugh' as one of them.


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Default 26-04-2012, 06:33 PM

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My advice for ‘day game’:

• Be going somewhere.
• Be doing something.
• Be excellent.

If in anyway shape or form you accidentally communicate the idea that you are ‘walking around the streets fishing for pussy' you’ll go home with your dick in your hand.

Moreover you’ll probably go home with your dick in your hand anyway for a variety of other reasons too. Many of which it won’t be in your power to control or influence.

I think what a lot of PUA dorks say about day game is horse shit. Clubs and bars are a natural environement for interaction with strangers, trains and street corners aren’t. I dunno about you but I think when most people are going about their business during the day they are busy, and they are focused on what they are doing and where they are going. Stopping them for a chat can be annoying.

People during the day are probably going to be in very logical rather than emotional frame of mind and so far less likely to be open minded and relaxed enough to be open to romance, seduction and sex.

Women that are wondering around aimlessly during the day are probably either:

• Tourists.
• They are spending some man’s money.

Now there are plenty of women you can score with and fuck that belong to the above two groups but they also present unusual problems. Tourists only here for a short stay might be reluctant to meet you for a drink and a fuck in a strange city they don’t know so well or transversely might be up for letting you take them out for drinks, confident that they can skip town before having to give you some. Women spending some man’s money…may well take you for a ride, because that might well be what they ‘do’. They might appreciate the attention and validation but then mention the boyfriend and skip off after you’ve wasted three hours making her feel good about herself for no reason.

If you must hit on women during the day, I suggest you do so as part of your natural routine. Go out shopping for the shit you need anyway and ask nearby women you like the look of for input and advice in relation to it. Make her LAUGH. Notice things about her about the bags she's carrying and the shops she's been to etc. Ask leading questions, give her the opportunity to talk about herself. If she jumps at the opportunity you give her (without mentioning a bf) chances are she's attracted and available and is wanting you to ask for her number. So do it.

But don't expect much from this. It's a bit of a numbers game atleast in my experience atleast.

Hope this helps.

Joker, thanks for taking the time to write this. My thoughts though are not so much that I'm out in the day purely to game, more that if I see a girl i like I'm now trying to get in the habit of at least trying to get her number for another time rather than just walking by thinking she's fit.


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Default 26-04-2012, 08:19 PM

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Wow, quite a few limiting beliefs for avoiding day game there Joker. I think you should have included 'make them laugh' as one of them.
I never told anyone to avoid anything. My point is simply that if someone's busy then they are busy. And people (in general) are more 'likely' to be busy at 9.45am on a the way to work than they are at 9.45pm in a chilled out bar...

You can call that a 'limiting belief' if you like.


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