Total cop out AA
 

Ok so today I went to work with my new enthusiasm to make a point of sorting out my game so to speak by 2 possible ways.

1. total cold opening random girls in the street
2. Making a point of trying 5 minute sets when out in the evening.

So this morning i got the train to work and was buying a ticket from the conductor when this girl came and stood right next to me to get a ticket as well, we were both getting off 1 stop later. I would have called her a 7/8 but sher was the girl next door type, exactly what I go for. I was thinking about how I could speak to her once we got off the train but two 15 year old boys who I teach at my school happened to be behind me when we got off and I totally shit out of asking.
Then I got a second chance, on the train home she happened to be stood opposite me, I thought this was too much of a coincidence so was think of saying something but again shit out because the train was dead quiet and jamm packed.

I also failed to catch her when I got off the train.

What a fucking idiot, I have to get out of this AA mindset or I'll get nowhere. I plan to get the same train tomorrow because I need to right this wrong! Have I missed the chance now? Any tips on getting up for it in the morning?

I think street game is weird, if ur in a situation to talk to someone then fine, but walkin round lookin for girls to speak to is LAME

I wouldn't get the same train either, that's just putting further pressure on yourself to perform in that environment.

Combine K and Phil's comments above, and then read Snake Eyes: http://www.puaforum.co.uk/field-reports/3945-5-day.html

He basically sums up that 'street' or 'day' game didn't work out too well for him. There are many games (Street, Bus Stop, Bar, Cafe, Log Flume, Club, Sauna), so just try them out and see which you're more comfortable with/have most success with.

As for the two 15 yr olds behind you. Imagine what they'd have thought if you ended up making her laugh, flirted outrageously and got her number. Would you have felt good you impressed them?

Yes- good idea, baby steps, I'll take it back a step.

I would not say I'm going round looking for girls. It's just a case that if I see some one I like the look of then why should I not speak to then there, why do you have to be out in a club etc.

you dont, but then i dont just walk up to random girls in clubs either... i always at least make it look like it was an accidental meet.

Why would you go to the effort to pretend you met them accidentally?

Ah, like an unintentional bump!

Look mate. There is nothing wrong with approaching anyone on the street in the cold light of day. Sure it may be deemed 'weird' by our social conditioned culture, but then hey, so are sites like this who chat about improving our game with women.

Don't be ashamed of your intentions. Don't pretend.

Well that was my initial thought, but just trying to learn.