I'm tired and only writing this because I like you.

I think you're becoming the sleezy make-out guy. Why kiss girls of there is nothing more?!

Yes, good for your validation but your risk of disease is through the roof.

You need to get your game more potent. Genuine friendship with the guys, slow it down.

Are you experimenting with real social proof?....

The way I see it:

-increased disease risk
-getting a 'sleeze' reputation

I don't get that much pleasure from 'just kissing' either. I'd rather be more potent, and kiss less girls. Last night, out with friends, I only 'opened' one set (mixed 2m2f set) - really solid close (she asked for my number etc).

I'm also a bit anoyed that sapmi doesn't have too much success. Clearly from his message it sounds like something is going a bit wrong.

Is it that because you are so confident and don't give a shit that you don't realise you are being loud, pushy and too in peoples faces? I haven't been out with you in a while so I don't know.

Have you tried being more chilled and less goal orientated? Go out for fun and don't try and constantly kiss or talk to women. If one comes along fine talk to her but don't go out with the sole intention of kissing as many as you can. Lessen the woo and the alphaness you might benefit from hanging back a bit as you might be too intense for some people to handle so they feel threatened.

Your not short of practice or time spent out, so more time out might not be the answer. Chill out a bit give pick up a rest, it might be that you can't see the forest for the trees, some time off might make you realise where you are going wrong. By all means go out but just don't go out as much and without pick up on your mind.

I don't think giving it a rest is the answer. The more practice I get, the better I will get. Makeouts and opening mixed sets were out of my reality just a few months ago.

Sitting on my Laurels and reading forums isn't gonna help improve my game. Field is king. And you think I'm not having fun when I'm out speak to girls? I'm having the time of my life! Let the good times continue. I just need to conquer the last steps, isolation and extraction.

I'm not saying sit in a dark room looking at internet forums all day i'm saying go out and do other things beside pick up otherwise you will become a one dimensional pick up drone. From what it sounds like you were saying, isolation and extraction isn't going to stop you pissing off guys.

Yeh I know...I'm a rampaging sex predator out in the field lol....over time I'll get more calibrated hopefully....

On the down side, I may have to reduce my sarging to 3 days a week now :'( ..I'm planning world domination so I'm spending more nights in....hopefully back to more frequent sarging in a few weeks time

Will keep my diary updated......

P.S Texting this sex crazed milf atm ....doing really well actually...keeping her interest...I send one text, she sends two on the go..will see her this weekend..glory times mofos...Jesus, she's sending me naked pics lol

Guess you will be saving your dosh this weekend then matey if you gonna see this sex crazed MILF instead...;-)

Guess she likes my new afro hair style.

@Kowalski: Love you, but I just can't smile! But joking aside, there have been times where I have been in scanning mode..especially when I see others open and I'm not...like that Friday night 2 weeks ago, when I seemed to have choded out a bit. This response is not necessarily a reply to your post..it's for diary purposes too....

But, however frustrating it is for me (and for you guys to watch lol), it's upward as far as my skill level is concerned. I think at times I don't push the sets enough (as Stafford points out). For instance, I was in one set with a girl at the Ritz..had a little make out, and then I left her...Stafford thought I'd lost the plot! It's weird because sometimes I open sets, and it's on! Other times I open sets, I come across as a miscalibrated dick!

I am coming to realise that my game is better if I shoot the shit with the guys I'm out with before we hit the clubs/bars etc. There are some people I'm more comfortable doing that with than others etc Darood, Jaz, Lloyd where we do speak shit and have a laugh. For the times I act 'uncool', I think it's because a little demon has temporarily taken over my body saying "you're crap Mark" little demon= Ego ...

I was a lot worse when I first started..but Ekhard Tolles stuff has really helped to switch that useless crap in my brain off!! Thank goodness I can see a path I'm going towards and I can see a light at the other end of the tunnel. There are other things I am sorting out in my life right now aswell which will raise me to an even higher level (not necessarily PU).

I reckon this little diary blog will give realistic hope to all the Chodes out there (thats if I shag more), that it is possible to go from Chump to Champ. I'm still kind of average for a guy who has been into game for under a year, so this blog/diary is no way unrealistic! And above all, I am enjoying the process...taking one sarge at a time..

P.S...filming me? I may see my mistakes True! However it would make me cringe so much that I may never approach again!! Any other suggestions?

Hey,

Lets continue with the fun and frolics of my pick up endeavours. I had been out of action for almost a week, because I'd been ill.

Lay Report...

While feeling sorry for myself (man flu is a bitch), I stumbled upon plenty of fish. This is like a free dating website. Anyway, got chatting to this girl on there, used alot of push pull, cocky funny etc. Number closed her, and arranged a meetup the next day. On the meetup, I chilled, stayed funny, enjoyed myself and kino escalated. From the moment I saw her, grabbed her hand and led! She was in my reality now. I calibrated the kino just right, with leaning back and escalating. I made out with her a few times when we were out. Anyway, led her back to my place and glory times

Next day..

Went out with Sinstyle and Retro. Approach loads of sets. I was well rusty, didn't hook one all night. Had a laugh though, however, worried why my performance had dropped because I hadn't been out for 6 days?

Monday:
Went out with Spoonhead and Jake to opus. Took me time to open, but, hooked one or two sets. No closes though, but started to get more into the swing of things by the end of the night. Had a massive blow out from an old set I number closed months before.

Thursday:
Went to Subspace after improv, eighties night! Went with Steve and Chris. You guys should come, the music is ace, subspace must be one of the best venues in Manc! I was approaching alot more...starting to get back to the old monster self! No closes though..but set the scene for the next night

Friday:

I was feeling it more! Went out with Rudy, Spoon and Steve. Started to open sets....Before I was shooting the shit with Rood and Spoon...having a laugh with the boys really puts you in to state. As I mentioned, the goal of the night was to have fun! Started to open, but calibrated to a chilled woo. Interactions were smoother. We went to Rock World (Jillys)...awesome! Got chatting to the DJ who saw the clash live 8 times! Anyway, opened this stunning lady. We got chatting....I led her around the venue. I kept saying I was hungry (hint hint). Number closed her pretty early on in the interaction anyway. It was on! I got her to buy me two drinks We had a very tiny makeout, but she wanted me to spit out my chewing gum! No way! Anyhow, she was with friends (2 guys!), I kind of lost her. Then she texts me "where are you?"... Then she suggests we go for drinks one day....

This reminds me of the interaction I had in Jillys a few weeks earlier...just couldn't get the pull home! .........man I'm soo nearly there....Anyway, hope this girl won't flake, but, there's many more girls out there...

Once I get the pulls home, I'll be pimpin it man!

P.S I think Darood pulled..glory times!

Awesome Sapmi, this shit is coming together. You seem alot more chilled I think this is working for you.