Hi guys,

well I really didn't feel like goingbout tonight and was feeling pretty sick of game. I actually had one of the best nights out tonight with Darood nova hustler sinstyle and tom. It was great just to get on a dance floor and boogie!

Anyway after having a chat with Darood I'm going to have next week off just to gather my thoughts and do a bit of Reading. I did try lots of stuff over the weekend, direct opening (you have nice hair), random statment of fact (you're tall), opinion openers, even just grabed a girl round the waste on the dance floor; Sweet FA was working. This is the reason for the break as i'm loosing beleif that this stuff is will work. I'll see you out in a couple of weeks hopfully.

Retro

Just tagging on the end of this. Being out with Nova, tom and hustler for the 1st time this weekend. Really cool guys, had a great time hanging with them and i look forward to doing it again.

dsadsait.

It was a good night out I didn't do much either I was a bit drained but it was cool to just hang out. I think i'm going to give it a miss next week too I haven't felt too good this week and I think it's all the going out drinking I think I need to recharge my batteries.

You want to visit a classy barman! Where do you want to visit him in the toilets? (yes i'm so mature)

dsadsadas

I'm up for a little of that.. Not this weekend though, i'm going to do what i always have been doing (about 6 months ago) and going back to playing video games

Maybe the weekend after i'll have a venture out if i feel up to it, but at the moment i've kind of had a fill of going out as its the same result, no matter what the approach / technique deployed.

Retro

Don't be dishearten man, I'm run down after so many weekends out, I need to get my energy and drive back.

Have you thought about trying some day game?
You're after a long term relationship so going out on the weekend might not be the best place to find someone who is after that too.
I'm not very good at day game but I think it'll more likely lead to a stable relationship rather than on a night out when girls are drunk and expecting to be chatted up.
You'll have a bigger choice of venues too, so you can go somewhere where you know girls who like similar stuff to you go.

Retro - I'd bit disappointed if you knocked self-development in this area on the head.

Bit of time off might help, but you shouldn't give up. Did you not think about doing a boot camp?

You know some guys do 1-on-1s too - people who are good at teaching.

Remember that you are now opening sets in different ways and such. That is progress. I think eventually you start to get a greater overall picture of how attraction works with experience.

Also, you have to ask are you really being flexible enough to learn? You seem at times reluctant to do things; maybe you have a bit of stubbornness left in you? When I first started, I would try to do anything just to try it. Growing the process and not the outcome. A few times I've asked you to open and you haven't. Don't take this personally - I'm trying to help because I think you're a good guy.

I think internet game is probably good for LTR women (the girls I knew in my last work were always on about this). But using it for anything else and I liken it to cheating (note: please don't discuss, opinion only)

dsadsadsa

Sounds liek a challenge i cant refuse kowalski!

Retro,
Im out camping with my boys next weekend BUT if you fancy copacabana and salsaing the weekend after then its game on. No I wont dance with you but I can bring my spanish friend and her friend to do salsa cos I know you like that....! Its fun fun fun mate...! Gisa shout dood!