Hey guys,

i thought i'd post a field report since i have a few things that i want pointers on (particularly of the, "what do i do next" kind)

Turned up pretty late at a bar, kinda small place. i was with a couple of wings and we headed straight to the bar to order our (none alcoholic) drinks. we looked around whilst waiting and we noticed two girls kissing, my wing and i looked at each other and smiled. i turned to look at the bar (to see if i was up next to order) and before i new it my wing was in a group hug with the girls and a few other girls! this was pretty awesome as he had now disarmed the group (of about 8 girls) for later intervetion, i noticed an oriental girl who i wanted.

opened a warm up two set in the middle of the club (freestyle):

ME: hey i noticed you have a pearcing, i'd like to get get one on my eyebrow but im not sure which side cause i hear one side means your gay!

Girl1: if you get one they scare easily but i've never heard of one side meaning your gay before though.

Me: so what do you girls do?

Girl1: We're studying (i cant remeber what she said)

i look at her friend who has completly turned her back on me

Me: hey are you alright?

Girl2: im fine but your annoying me and if you continue im going to get really angry

ME: is she always like this?!

Girls1: lol not really..

i smile and just ignore her friend, but after asking Girl1 this question i got the feeling she was annoyed that i made her friend look bad. The set was turning into a mess so i wished them a good night and ejected. went and ranted to my wings about it...next!

my wing and i decided to go and reopen the girls we had opend when we first arrived. started to get chatting to one of the girls HB5. Again freestyle/natural. They were eating this weird bread like buscuit..

ME: *weird look on face* hey whats that?

HB5: its nice, try some. i took it off her, held it in my hand for a moment then passed it to me wing to get rid of!

ME: mmm nice. So what do you do?

HB5: i cant rember what she said

boring conversation about where we're from, what we do etc...

HB5: *smells my drink*

ME: no its not alcohol im not drinking...

HB5: *takes a sip*

ME: you do know that we have practically kissed

HB5: yeah i know its ok..

ME: are you a good kisser?

HB5: yeah...

ME: lets find out shall we..

i go for gold!

HB5: bitch turns to the side!.. FAIL! lol


i get bored and notice that weird bread thing is going around again...perfect opportunity to eject as now the cute oriental girl is giving it out...

same opener...

ME: *weird look on face* hey whats that?

HB8: *hands me some*

ME: No thanks im chewing gum..

she moves towards her bag and sits next to it. I am now standing..

HB8: can i have one...

ME: sure only if you take it from my mouth... *cheekey grin and suggestive look*

HB8: im not that kind of girl.

i tease some more and eventually give in and hand her one... she drops it! i kick it away..

ME: now you have to take it from my mouth...[takes out gum and holds it between my teeth] again *cheekey grin and suggestive look*

we both laugh and i then take out another gum piece and hand it to her to signify that this joke has now reached its climax.

general conversation about her (im doing most of the questions at this point)...5-7 mins into the interaction she begins to ask question about me. i'd take this as an IOI. im now starting to stay in set until i recieve question which i now interpret as IOI's. i find out tht she sings..

ME: oh really!? after you just told me that i find you so much more attractive now. i cant even look at you. you keep speaking im just going to cover my eyes (i say this jokingly, but have physically moved away from her about a foot)...i laugh and then continue the conversation...

we talk some more and throught the interaction im contantly teasing and having this cockey flirtatious side to me. obviousely the club is loud and most of the conversation is done speak to one anothers ears. But im trying to keep myslef looking like im not eager. so i lean back obviousely not being to hear her speak as she is sitting down and i am standing. Now everytime she wants to speak to me she keeps pulling my jacket to get me down to her level... im quite happy to let thi happen because it looks like she wants me.

Through our conversatio i found a few common interests and genuinly found her attracted both physcally and mentally. i tell her we should swap numbers..

ME: we should swap numbers.

HB8: im not looking for a one night stand

ME: theres no way im gonna let you turn into a one night stand!

HB8: reassured smile

we swap numbers and i miss call her but she pulls out her phone and say my battery is dead. i tease her and say how do i know you havent just given me a fake number. i dont wait for a response and continue talking to her for a bit longer, i gave her a cuddle and she wished me a good night (i whispered in her ear, "text me"). The club was getting empty but this time and so my wing and i left the bar.

now...i haven't texted her yet and i was wondering if i should text her even though i told her to text me?... what to do?

I'd just call her and miss out the whole texting bollox, but hey I'm not expert.

I would love to do this but in the back of my mind I'm thinking she won't answer... my number isn't stored in her phone its on a piece of paper...

Good work! I've heard that girl find it a bit pushy when it comes to phone calls. Swap a few texts then give her a call instantly after receiving the 4th(ish) text, saying something along the lines of 'it's faster if we just chat like this isnt it?' HOWEVER I have had the extact problem over the weekend when it comes to text and phone game! Its under field reports 'would this work...'

i just read it.

ok i think i might just text her... what du guys think i should text her? shall i pickup on the chewing gum moment? i want to send her something funny but at the same time relavent to the night so it reminds her of it. Thanks.

i hope this field report isnt too long....i did my best to keep it interesting. i get the feeling people cant be botherd to to read it through and then offer their advice...

i've just texted her the following.

ME: Hey independent lady! i hope u enjoyed the chewing gum you nearlytook from my mouth on Sat! haha. how was the rest of your night, you werent sitting down all night were you? ..[my name]

the " independent lady" thing is a reference to me telling her that i like an independent lady and she responded well to it. So i thought i'd give her a nickname. Anyway, your thoughts?

Text time, text her straight away the same evening. Although in this instance since her phone battery ran out, text her Sat morning e.g. "who was the cool dude you met last night"...! I hope her number isnt flake, keep us posted with her response. If she never replies, press the "DELETE" button...!

i hope so too man. she was gorgeous! my wings said that she was easily the best looking girl in that place... well it was a small place lol. Yeah im gonna wait a few days for a reply although she should have replied by now if not by this evening. i'll call her in a couple days. if she flakes, she will be NEXT'ed!

her phone was turned off. i suppose i could have sent it anyway but hey ho! she hasnt replied yet and after all the above it feels like shes going to turn into a flake!... man this game is tough. So many dam variables!