i've just texted her the following.

ME: Hey independent lady! i hope u enjoyed the chewing gum you nearlytook from my mouth on Sat! haha. how was the rest of your night, you werent sitting down all night were you? ..[my name]

the " independent lady" thing is a reference to me telling her that i like an independent lady and she responded well to it. So i thought i'd give her a nickname. Anyway, your thoughts?