God, do you guys genuinely believe relationships have to be about a power struggle?! If she wants to go to the damn party on her own then so be it. Why make such an issue of it. Do you not trust her? Lamping some guy probably isn't the way to impress her either.

Wicked post that Refl3x. These are all the things that I would normally have done had I not let my emotions and drinking get out of hand. The last time I was in a bar full of men with those two girls I just leaned back in my seat like a mac daddy, with the only two blondes there.

Incidentally, wherever we go, I already have a shit load of social proof and she often gets jealous asking me how I know all the Erasmus girls and even complaining that I just talk to everyone.

All this stuff is so obvious and easy to do before emotions start turning your head and clouding your judgement.

No he doesn't trust her nova, which is why this whole thread has started. Bu can't be bNgin a girl behind sumounes back and cry wen she cuz it 2 u. Midas u do t need her. Jib her

What Phil said. Move on!

Someone told me to do similar to what phil mentioned earlier. It worked for me anyway. Become unavailable..cut down on facebook especially in the evenings, late txt replies, time constraint on phone convos, ur busy, and dont answer in the evenings. She told me that she thought I was seeing someone, where it was just all illusions and assumptions.
Most of ur disputes were probably of ur own illusions and assumptions anyway, we all become a victim of it... especially PUA's ;)

I think we need to think about relationships more in terms of a balance rather than pretending you are busy. Being needy with constant contact and reacting in a jealous manner to things a girl does without you just isn't the right balance. Power is irrelevant.

Of course if you don't trust your girlfriend, what's the point.

superstar is right tho!! this works in all aspects of life

Absolutely nova, I believe in mutual relationships. it was just a gimmick, it won't change the relationship but it worked to get a second round.

I guess the question is more about 'what is sustainable', as opposed to what creates a temporary emotional reaction.

What do we even see in women? Their double standards are shocking. They do things that they would go nuts if we did and we are expected to rise above it every time like superior beings. We have to have 100% control of our emotions all the time or the whole thing falls to shit. That's some pressure.