The bottom line.

[quote=kowalski;35749]
The solution is in the problem. Rather than work on the cleverest way to psychologically take control of the frame of the conversation and switch it to your advantage or similar, all you need to do to pass the test is be unaffected by it. And if you are unaffected by it, you often won't even notice that you are being 'tested' half the time (seeing the world in terms of tests and stuff is a type of paranoia QUOTE]


Awesome paragraph that sums up the whole shooting match rather deftly I thought.

scamp(i)

this has been an interesting thread

respect guys

perhaps its because... they fancy them...

and its only illegal to fancy famous people in some parts of the world.

i do wonder why it is ok to publicly say (FAMOUS PERSON) is fit for a girl

but she wouldnt go WOW THAT BARMAN IS AMMMMMAAAZIN...

perhaps its socially accepted there are levels. and they dont expect it to be an issue...

which based upon this thread, its clearly not

Perhaps it's because they have more to go on when it comes to a famous personality (through seeing them in magazines and on tv), i.e. they're funny, confident, ice cool, super geeky, clever, etc... and attraction is built up from a number of factors. With the barman they can only make an instant judgement.

That last message reminds me of that Peter Kaye John Smith’s Ad...

WIFE: Tess Daily, Kelly Brook?
PETER KAYE: ...Claire from work *drools*
WIFE: *face like a slapped arse*

Jokes.

Thanks to everyone that’s put in some constructive input and opinions here gents. Much appreciated. Keep it coming.

I’ve got a couple of theories of my own on some of this...

I think for one thing, a hot enough 'regular' girl is essentially 'on the menu' for any A-list bloke. If she was so inclined (maybe a boob job, some Botox plus the right kinda dress) would be all it would take for her to find herself in a position to catch the eye of a Cristiano Ronaldo or whoever. But her ‘game’ at this point would revolve not around making him wanna fuck her so much as making him fall in love with her and/or pay for her shit. And she’s always got her womb to use with regards to the second part should be first part fail.

But swap it around for a second. Even a rich amazing looking dude with mad game (if he wasn’t an industry insider) would have his work cut out just blagging his way into the same room as an A-list chick never mind actually getting anywhere with her romantically or sexually.

Also when 'A-List' women do fall for 'average joes' it’s almost always a man she knows through a professional capacity that enjoys a day-to-day proximity in relation to her. Attraction is almost always built over time. It’s usually a guy that in some way or another serves one or more of her basic primal needs, Bodyguard (physical protection), personal Trainer (physical upkeep/health/beauty), Dance instructor/songwriter/director etc (professional development).

So I think guys and girls have a fundamentally different perspective when it comes to famous people and fantasy romances/fucks. I mean I violently loath Megan Fox and everything she stands for...but that doesn’t mean I wouldn’t fuck her in a heartbeat given half the chance. It goes without saying.
I think when women throw out the famous man thing, it’s sometimes and often just a shit test, but other times it’s more complicated/interesting than that. We wouldn’t mention wanting to fuck any famous woman ever. If we did happen to have fucked/dated/known a famous women we probably wouldn’t mention it either since I think it's more likely to put her the girl off than switch her on. Yet I’ve known girl that have mentioned getting pretty crude sexual advances from famous men/footballers as if it’s some kind of badge of honour...Tends to be young ditzy twatty girls mind you.

Thoughts?