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Originally Posted by kowalski
I, and many others, avoid girls who are taken and have not had the problems you describe.
A statistically significant sample size?
Blanca, fellow empiricist, your standards are slipping.
Peace,
kowalski
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Fair comment K. I was using the most convenient example to demonstrate my point.
My view on going for girls with boyfs stems from my experiences at uni, where almost every single fit girl I knew had a long-term chode boyf, leaving me frustrated. I've written in depth on the subject of the mentality of these people and how it affected me, and it undoubtedly changed my view of girls (because they are most definitely girls, not women) of my age (I'm 22 for anyone who is unaware).
To an extent I wish I didn't have this mindset. It's mostly laziness on my part - it is easier to just go "oh I can't be fucking arsed, let's just pull whoever and if she's taken tough shit" than to sit tight and chat up the ones who are actually single. It became almost laughably predictable that, when I enquired about a fit friend of one of my friends, that she "had a boyfriend", and 3 years of this rather warped my mindset. It seems easier to not give a shit about whether she's taken or not.
It's something I'd like to change, but we'll see.