hi puas, I don't use this that often, I'm not really used to forum etiquette etc.. but you seem pretty chill so I thought I'd put this out.

Been dating a girl a couple of weeks, I know she wants to sleep with me and has even said so, but every time we get to the end of the night she says she can't. She doesn't want me to see her that way, she won't come back.. If I push and say come on, it'll be nice, she'll like it but say no. If I walk away she wouldn't follow. We have chemistry, making out etc, but this close thing has happened 3 - 4 times already. It's getting annoying.

Separately, a girl who I've been dating occasionally on and off for about a year. she's been away for a lot of the time so don't see her much. Similar problem, she might be inexperienced and I can't seem to get enough chemistry going.. We've shared a bed and I've been pretty direct and indirect. But I don't say it outright. Also I don't feel guilty for seeing both because one is rarely in london and the other is still teasing. ideas?

Arrrrgh! Fucking annoying dude. I've been in exactly the same spot with this Austrian chick for like a month now. There may well be another guy involved, as there is in my case. I am about to write the entire report right now, so you can read it and see exactly the way I've decided to deal with it.

ignore midas by chick he means dude

for all I've seen of her genitalia she could be!

yep... but a homeless guy looks in a bakery window... he is however

still hungry

learn some ross jefries stuff just use it to get her wet in her pants if done right she'll be dying to fuck you.
I've not yet come across this problem. Once I'm in bed I always start with kissing, then after caressing her body I start to rub her pussy outside the panties and so on and so on. Fingering is more than foreplay but less than sex it's great for transition.
Once the pants are off it's on.

Seems like you need need to switch it around and stop chasing. As peeps on here seem to say, if you chase it you won't get it.

Try a bit of freeze out. If you walk away and she doesn't follow - walk further until she does.

As long as she knows you're alway going to come back for another try, she can happily string it out.

quick point if she pulls your hand away say "now now don't be nughty _____" nd then start kissing and go for it again after about 10 seconds. If that fails say "I know you want it you can't fool me naughty girl"

FOX LMFAO.... hahahhahah mate i actually cannot stop laffin at that ....

such a dry comment, brilliant

that is being plagiarised..

That seems a bit rapey that

chops it does sound like a proper rapey comment la