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Lol, stein. You’re a dumb cunt.

Peace,

kowalski

Stein often provides wayyyyy more than some newbies deserve, especially when they're refusing to listen.

But I don't mind, because I was referenced not once but TWICE in one of his posts :)

[quote]It is true what you say about suspicion. I am approached by a POLICE OFFICER in one of my later videos. He tries to get me to stop filming and suggests speed dating instead. He said he "doesn't want to see me around town again".[quote]

And it finally happened
:clapclap:

Just try to get out of trouble please, you don't need to go to court to learn how to flirt.

Just make a little bit of social circle, including girls, and you'll find yourself in social situations in which you can practise.

Losing the irrational fear to approach, it's really nice, but remember, this fear is there for something. Mostly to help you avoid sticky situations, also jail.

Avoid going around Hythe with a bike and improve yourself with a proper life before trying to improve your confidence. You can get much more confidence, for example, getting riddle of that "Long term unemployed" situation.

I honestly see totally bizarre that you don't have a job for long, which is probably causing you a life of misery and privation, and instead of looking for one you waste your time creeping girls around on a bicycle until a police officer gives you a warning.

Watch this video, follow it, and get a job. It took me out of unemployment in 2 weeks, after 2 years.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2PFYZde5SPk
And if you have time an energy to chase girls around on a bike, you have it for doing this.

From these commnents by Stein, Kowasaki and Catboy, it seems to me that without a "life" it is impossible to meet women at all.

My whole early adulthood and 20s I never had any kind of "life".

Then I saw approaching videos on YouTube and thought from them that the only reason I'd never met women was because I didn't approach them boldly in the street.

But according to you guys, all along it was because I didn't have a "life".

No matter what you do, without a "life" it is impossible to meet females, even if you put the leg work in.

I know Dan, that’s why I got all jealous.

OP, then you also can’t read because I said no such thing.

Peace,

kowalski

It is nice to be quoted. Also, re the above I believe it was I who said (like literally a page ago):

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The key thing throughout that entire interaction is that you're incongruent and you don't have good social acuity. Filming yourself doing day game is a bad way to solve that, it just won't help.

....daygame is too weird of a social situation to be able to do that. You need to learn to socialise with people in general and to handle less intense social interactions. Try going to social events or meetups. There you can meet people in a friendly, low-pressure way and work on your acuity.

oh, and

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The point of you getting a job or getting a social life is for 2 reasons:

1. It's a good and enjoyable thing to have in and of itself
2. Like I said before, it will help you learn how to talk to people without being weird. It wasnt to get laid just by getting a job and a social circle. Unemployed people with bad lives can get girls, but they don't have the lack of social skills you do. And by the way, having friends isn't a shit load of work you have to go through, you should want to have that anyway. I mean damn

So while there are obvious benefits to having a life, the point here is that it's a good way for you to figure out how to actually talk to people and be normal. That seems to be everyone's underlying message here. So if you said:

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it seems to me that without BASIC SOCIAL SKILLS it is impossible to meet women at all.

My whole early adulthood and 20s I never had any kind of BASIC SOCIAL SKILLS

Then I saw approaching videos on YouTube and thought from them that the only reason I'd never met women was because I didn't approach them boldly in the street.

But according to you guys, all along it was because I didn't have BASIC SOCIAL SKILLS

No matter what you do, without BASIC SOCIAL SKILLS it is impossible to meet women, even if you put the leg work in.

You'd have no argument here.

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Originally Posted by Stein (Post 126399)

It is nice to be quoted. Also, re the above I believe it was I who said (like literally a page ago):

oh, and

So while there are obvious benefits to having a life, the point here is that it's a good way for you to figure out how to actually talk to people and be normal. That seems to be everyone's underlying message here. So if you said:

You'd have no argument here.

Fair enough, I can see what you mean. I think our definition of "basic social skills" is different, however.

I would see basic social skills as knowing when to say please and thank you, knowing what to say in certain circumstances, like not talking about irrelevant stuff at a funeral.

Or in a day game sense, being friendly and not bringing up inappropriate topics like sex etc.

But you are saying basic social skills are more than that, which I didn't realise.

When to say please and thank you is almost the lowest level imaginable.

What is lower than that? Not randomly invading people's personal space? Only full on retards or heavily drunk/drugged peeps do that. Anything else so low will be equally as insane.

Very young children 'know' when to say please and thank you.

Your oddness dips to levels imperceptible to you because of your oddness. (Bastardised Locke quote)

Peace,

kowalski

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Originally Posted by kowalski (Post 126401)

I just watched this video for the first 5 minutes

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CruWxo_Ou4Y

This guy tells girls to stop, gets in front of them, yet doesn't get criticised for it. But when I do the same, I get criticised for it!?