Do you mean the whole degree of separation thing? Haha yeah, soon it will just be 2 degrees: Girl 1 - Snake Eyes tried to pull you - Girl 2

Good reason why using canned openers are bad! Bound to hit on 2 girls that know each other sooner or later doing this!

Lucky I live in London, so there is a never ending supply......

Good work SE - if there was ever a thread to point newbies to about practice and persistence this would be one of them :)

one thing i will ask... and granted i dont usually ask for advice BUT

im gonna have a blast at this soon so... when a girl is wearing headphones... are u just approachin an telling them to stop listening to music coz at the min i would not bother if

on phone
listening to music

?? curious

Thanks, your spot on!

If I ever hear anyone whining about AA once I've finished this I think I'll slap them with a wet fish!

Do this challenge and then come back whining! If you are scared of making a fool out of yourself in front of your friends go do it on your own. If you're scared of being on your own, go get some wings! Whatever you need to do to make it work, do it!

My feeling is that everyone can get what they want if they have persistence and are willing to keep pushing themselves out of their comfort zone. Is a real pet peeve of mine if people don't even try and then whine about their crappy lives!

Even the best have to ask for advice sometimes Phil haha

I can only remember doing this once, I just signalled to her to take her ear phones out and then started chatting. Nice chat, we danced in the street, but she said she had a BF.

Once I finish this race and start my challenge again (assuming my dick doesn't fall off from all this running around in the cold!!) I expect ear phones not to be a problem, esp if you go direct.

Mobile phones I view as a bit much. If someone tried to stop me when I was on the phone I'd tell them to do one! My opinion on this could change though...

You should definitely try this out. Make sure you've got a clear few weeks if your going to do it properly though.

so ok... how are you opening these... is it just Hi Im ..... whats your name..???

whats the response in general... how many r u closing etc...??

Read his field reports.

im gonna get stuck into readin this tomorow...

im defo playin this game :)

state ...
 

Snake Eyes ...

Props to you for getting out there, and for such detailed reports.

Does strike me though that you are very dependent on this thing called "state".

Firstly everyone goes through periods when they feel sociable and times when they dont. Personally I don't feel the need to beat up on myself because the last time I went to tescos I really just wanted to buy a few things, mind my own business and get out rather than open half the female shoppers.

Imagine that you don't open a set for week, but you find yourself opening the super hot girl behind you in the checkout queue without hesitation, without having "worm up on a few sets first", without thinking that you have to in order to meet some self imposed quota, without needing to listen to loud music, shout "yeah, Im the shit" really loudly, click your finger or use some NLP or other artificial bullshit to get into this thing called "state".

Imagine instead that you just did it because you are a cool spontaneous confident guy :smokin:

I strongly suggest checking out Tyler Durdans blueprint course since he covers this area very well indeed.

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Planning on doing an overview of my first 100 approaches later this week. Should give you a good idea what has been working and what hasn't for me.